We have a question? Would we be able to ask on how to willo/add ? We r rly confused/sad cuz we had a sys collapse:( /gen/nf
alr this ask is almost a month old at this point T^T so we're gonna do our best to answer it. we'll give our method for willoing and then link a few resources!!
remember that every system is different and what works for us may not work for you(&)!
our method for willoing headmates
our method is incredibly simple and is likely more effective when paired with other methods/tips. i also want to note that we split very easily and have a very active imagination, so it's very easy for us to willo new headmates, which is likely why our method works so well for us.
what we do is we literally just add headmates onto pluralspace and fill out their different fields (so for us that's like. name, pronouns, gender, orientation, role, age, and then extra stuff if we want or it's given. we also add a faceclaim to every single headmate. headmates cannot form for us if we do not have a faceclaim for us, they need something to latch onto.)
things that also might be helpful to decide/know for a new headmate would be likes/dislikes, fronting triggers, fronting quirks, headspace room, aesthetic (moodboards and such), or style.
we use BAH packs for this most of the time. about 80% of our headmates are BAHgenic. BAH packs are magical, we love them so much!! :))
after we put all the info into pluralspace, we can typically feel the headmate's presence already, but if we can't or we want to feel them more, i'll kind of just.. roleplay as them until it really feels like them instead of me (host).
um so yeah that's our method, i think the most important part of all of that is to make sure you have a faceclaim for every new headmate, just to give them something to latch onto!!
resources, tips, and other methods
there's this post, this post, this post, and this post by my goat @i-suggest-getting-plural (love them btw they're so awesome <3 /p) they have a lot of helpful stuff on their entire blog, i'd reccommend checking them out!!
there's this post and this post about inducing switching
this post with links to posts about innerworlds
this post about inducing separation between headmates
a masterdoc with lots of links
make your system a better place to live
aside from all these there are tons of resources for tulpamancy so we'll incude a few of those as well
this post, this post, and this masterdoc
if anyone else has anything, feel free to drop in comments/reblogs!!
hopefully this was at least somewhat helpful? sorry it took so long lol T^T
