Hai hai guys ^°^ so major updates, our system is basically being restarted, if ya didn't know before we are a willowgenic / have been recognized as a osdd sys and before we would often try to form people but it never worked well cus they would like change themselves so much and ruin their whole purpose so cus of that we said "fuck it" and now are starting from 10 of the most well formed of our system lols (me being one of em), so be aware major aesthetic changes and stuff will be happening but don't fret I will be keeping up with bah fight this year and take over our bah blog starting tomorrow. So ya thank ya and have a wonderful day y'all /srs
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if I lose followers or moots for being pro-endo/ pro-willow, congrats. You just got towards another step of being a disgusting degrading fucking piece of shit who thinks endos/willows are like diseases, and you gladly need to hate on them, distance yourself from them or even possibly just be a disgusting cocksucking prick to other systems, no matter if you are one or not. I hope you fucking know that I am viewing you as a horrible person if you’re only unfollowing me or blocking me for not being silent about ableism towards identify disorder-having folks. It’s not any better if you would hate on them. You’re just pushing more harm onto them, and I’ve already lost 2 friends who were endogenic systems to suicide. FROM ABLEISM. IN THEIR OWN COMMUNITIES.
Unfollow me now if you wish. This is your chance. Or don’t, but either way, I support all systems as long as you aren’t harming anyone, yourself [degrading yourself for being endos / willows] or being ableist towards me. It’s not happening here or there or on my other blogs.
super super sorry if this offends you in any way, or makes you ucnomfortable. that is never ever ever my intention and this question is just for research/to educate myself as a singlet!!
...why do so many people hate endo/willow systems? just because endo/willow systems developed from something other than trauma, why do people think they're somehow fake or ableist? while i see so much vitriol and hatred, i also see defenders like you who are much more benevolent... and it's so odd to see these ideas clash to the point where i genuinely don't know who to support, because both traumagenic systems and endo systems are getting hurt!!
EXTREMELY long ask, feel free to discard it, I am really really sorry + this probably isn't the right blog to send this ask to, you can call me a dumbass and that is okay, I am really sorry
no no!! it’s okay!! i love the ask. no worries on the long ask. it’s genuinely okay!
im so so sorry if this sounds super aggressive in my rant, but im just genuinely annoyed by all the ableism in the DID/system community. I hope this helps you understand a little better! :)
im a traumagenic system myself, built up from medical (from birth to now, and probably going to continue) and childhood SA (mainly my tween years), as well as personal family matters, so I genuinely get how some people feel on certain systems. It sucks, okay? But I’m the one who’s gonna say it.
Not every disorder is built up on trauma. Some may not remember the exact reason of a disorder because some parts of the brain block out trauma that was horribly painful to experience by a memory gap. This is also known as post-traumatic amnesia. Basically, your own brain blocks out traumatic experiences so it doesn’t further harm you. Trauma can be in many forms and it’s not just a one-size-fits-all thing. Neither are identity disorders. You can still show signs of an identity disorder without having the full criteria.
Endo/willow systems are valid as well. Even if they don’t link up with every exact symptom or cause in any medical books, it’s still counted as a professional/self-diagnosis. It’s not them being delusional, or faking it. Even if there isn’t much research to show how other identity disorders, especially DID, affects the human brain, it’s still possible to discover that through different branches of idenity disorder systems. Most Endo/Willow systems are either unable to explain trauma, don’t have any, or maybe don’t remember any. Traumagenic systems are made up of trauma that can also be unknown or maybe recollected due to C-PTSD or another disorder that causes trauma flashbacks. Nonetheless, every system is different and valid, as long as they aren’t causing harm to anyone. Traumagenic systems are just mainly seen as more “natural” than endo/willow, but it’s the exact same way as to saying that a mild case of a disorder is “normal” than a severer type. It doesn’t make anything helpful for anyone because all we’re doing is harming and killing more systems over pushing them to harmful acts because they don’t feel safe in a space where everyone can and should. Nothing is normal about chronic, or constant disabling, harming disabilities because it isn’t a problem that you can fix yourself or with any sort of medical care. It gets treated by symptoms. Not by the actual issue itself. SYMPTOMS. Sure, it’s an illness, but it isn’t a fucking virus that you can distance yourself away from. To me, that is how anti-endo/anti-willow system look to me. They act as if other systems are diseased, ill or fucking sick in the head when all they want is support and care for who they are. And fuck, if it’s disgusting to someone who’s an endogenic and that’s saying something, then it’s that bad.
Disorders and disabilities are not one-size fits-all. They’re different and stem from other cases. Someone’s it’s hard to difference which disorder it is due to similar criteria, but whatever term is used by a system, they’re still valid no matter what type they are. It’s almost disgusting and even degrading to see that we treat people horribly over a fucking disability nobody can control. Have you ever expected a disabled person who needs a mobility aid to control when they need and don’t need it? Do you think someone who’s paralyzed can control what part of their body is affected? Do you actually fucking think in your sick ass head that maybe being discriminatory against other systems, whether stemming from trauma or not, is fucking VALID?! FOR FUCKS SAKE! IT ISN’T ANY FUCKING BETTER THAN DOING IT TO PHYSICALLY DISABLED PEOPLE, WHOSE DISABILITIES CAN BE MOTHERFUCKING SEEN. IT IS NOT ANY FUCKING BETTER.
I feel like endos/willows need more safe spaces for them, because they’re seen more as concepts than actual people. Hence why I don’t bother when I see other endo/willows safe blogs, or pro-endo/willow blogs on here. I’m gladly supporting them on the basis and no matter what system decides to interact with us, we’re more than welcome to be a part of their online friendship and support them no matter what, as long as their actions are supportive and not harming oneself or others. I will gladly block any anti-endo people I see, and I don’t care if I lose followers for this. As long as you aren’t in my DNI, PLEASE TALK TO ME! It doesn’t matter what interaction you give, as long as you aren’t an ableist prick, or you discriminate against other systems even if you’re one yourself, you’re cool to interact.
To sum this up, every system is a valid system. Labels don’t make discriminating more valid. Excluding other systems is clearly fucking ableist even whenever you’re a system yourself. The best you can do is accommodate for others no matter what disability or label they have. It doesn’t matter who or what it is. People need to learn how to get their heads out their asses and realize that even other people with disabilities can still be ableist. It’s not just excluded to folks who aren’t disabled in similar ways, or at all, in fact. Ableism is in all forms of oppression against any sort of community and it’s absolutely disgusting that people are validating it on other systems in the same exact community as others. It’s not any fucking better because all you are doing is harming yourself and other systems, further triggering them into possible consequences that involve taking their own life. (Which, coming from experience from losing a friend with DID who was endogenic and was pushed to suicide, it fucking sucks to lose someone so close who understood us. And it isn’t ever going to be okay to do that shit. AT ALL.)
That being said, endos/willow systems, no matter what diagnosis, are as valid as traumagenic system are like us and others are. It’s just plain stupid to be discriminating against your own kind of folks when you don’t even know yourself that if they have experienced something to trigger DID unless you fucking ask. It isn’t that hard to ask before you assume. It’s not any better, either.
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Random post but I am not a safe space for anti-endos. Please add me to your blocklist if you are anti endo, willow, soulbond, tulpa, etc. I will forever and always be pro-endogenic systems.
I will not tolerate harassment for my views on this specific discourse. Anyone who attempts to do so will be blocked on sight, as I do not have the time to deal with such meaningless matters ❤️
