Jokes aside this is a reminder that anyone accusing me of harassment or contributing to harassment is blatantly using it as a shield for criticism. I have made it VERY clear in my pinned post, and on nearly every post I make venting my frustrations around others' behavior, that is what my posts are for. Venting frustrations when you see people acting like assholes, blocking them, and keeping these frustrations under my posts instead of confronting the blog and giving them any attention directly.

I have said it before and I will say it again: I find that sort of behavior, harassment, to be disgusting and incredibly immature. If ANYONE harasses anyone based off my posts, you will be blocked. Anyone who does that shit is absolutely not welcome on this blog and deserves to be added to everyone's fuckin blocklist.

The people I defended in my previous post, and I, did NOT harass anyone. I made a singular post linking to blogs to BLOCK while making it incredibly clear not to harass anyone. The others involved were spammed far more by Britt and others in this situation. Britt DIRECTLY told people to go after a blog that had posted NOTHING about this publicly. Britt continued to make claims against the person who was complaining about the person who groomed them. That is victim-blaming. Continuing to insist they did nothing wrong and DARVO this situation into saying "now they're acting like they did nothing wrong" is absolutely disgusting behavior. I literally began that post by saying don't fucking comment on it without reading the full thing, and Britt's response clearly proved she did not read the full thing lol.

People love to insist I'm just "drama" and "being petty," but, if you really wanna see me making snarky petty comments? You don't put "galaxy brain" in your username unless you have a massive fucking ego and think way too highly of yourself. Refusing to admit you could've done a single fucking thing wrong and continuing to double down on victim-blaming not only a grooming victim, but directly telling your followers that the victim in question was one of the people to go after in this situation, is genuinely abusive behavior. I stand by my original post, and I stand by this one. Anyone who openly associates with these people after knowing what they've done is a piece of shit condoning targetted harassment towards a grooming victim. I'm refusing to say the name of the grooming victim here because THAT'S HOW BAD THIS HAS GOTTEN. I'm genuinely concerned about things getting worse for them when all they fucking did was complain about the person who fucking groomed them, and Ceme threw a fit and told their friend to nuke the server those complaints were made in. Hope I've made my stance crystal fucking clear here. That behavior is disgusting and there is no excusing it when Britt, Ceme, and the people they surround themselves with, continue to double down further and further when confronted, having 0 self-reflection and (with Britt specifically) continuing to believe the "he said, she said" bullshit in her ask box.

I truly don't know how these people make these posts and don't realize they are literally crybullies here. They are the people they complain about. They are calling transmascs/trans men who criticize them "mean girls." They complain about false accusations while spreading false accusations about others. They complain about harassment (that did not happen) and continue to lie, all while encouraging harassment against the people who called them out.

The SO's family continues to be the Absolute Best™ and made my holiday weekend cozy and lovely.

My family? Got home and it took them less than an hour to ruin absolutely everything. Trust evaporated, resisting the urge to cry, may not be going home for Christmas, eff them and the lies they rode in on, and no, I won't be elaborating except to say:

This place--this corner of Pedro Tumbletown--is full of lovely people and I am thankful for you. We all use this forum to escape from time to time, and it's saving my sanity tonight, so thank you for being silly and fluffy and smutty and weird and wonderful and willing to hold my hand and sigh over the most lovely man with me. We make a great team and I'm so happy to know all y'all.

Every time my blood family disappoints, I have to remember that they number in the single digits and I can't let the few rotten people in my life outweigh the really glossy and golden ones. My found family is so very large--be it my SO's fam, my IRL network, or my tumblefrands--I am very rich in blessings, and I am so so thankful for all of you and love you so very dearly.

condemning forcemasc while being a forcefem lover is massively hypocritical, and it amazes me how some of my fellow transfems don't realise that

from what i can tell, a lot of opposition to forcemasc stems from the same "masculinity bad" attitude that drives hatred of trans people (and especially transmascs) at large

(this post is also friendly reminder to never let the terfs win, all trans people are cool and valid, regardless of presentation or labels)