When âEasyâ Becomes Dangerous: Ravi x May (9-1-1)
This isnât calm analysis.
This is the kind of Theory Time that happens when you love a show enough to feel physically disappointed by it.
And yes â Iâm talking about 9-1-1.
Iâm behind (Italy problems). I hate spoilers. I actively avoid them.
But you canât exist in this fandom without seeing things.
And what Iâve seen about May and Ravi?
It feels like my worst narrative fear coming true.
Letâs break it down properly.
This Is Not About Shipping
Before anyone jumps there: no.
This is not me being delusional about another ship.
This is not jealousy.
This is not âthey didnât give me what I wanted.â
Itâs about storytelling integrity.
If May and Ravi had been built carefully, slowly, with emotional groundwork, I might not ship them â but I would respect it.
Thatâs not what this feels like.
The Ravi Problem: Five Seasons of Almost Nothing
Ravi has been around since season four. Since âJinx.â
What do we actually know about him?
⢠No real origin deep dive.
⢠No meaningful personal arc.
⢠No exploration of family, trauma, ambition, or internal conflict.
⢠No visible evolution.
Every core character in this show has had at least one origin-focused narrative expansion.
Buck.
Eddie.
Maddie.
Chimney.
Even Karen.
Thatâs not a criticism of the actor.
Itâs a criticism of the writing.
If you suddenly elevate him through romance instead of development, youâre not building him â youâre attaching him.
The May Problem: From Growth to Narrative Limbo
May had early development.
Dispatch.
Emotional beats.
Family tension.
Clear growth trajectory.
Then she stepped away for college â fine.
Where is her adult life?
Her apartment?
Her career?
Her inner conflict?
Weâve seen her as support.
Not protagonist of her own journey.
She becomes narratively relevant because sheâs paired.
Thatâs the part that makes my stomach turn.
The âLeftover Charactersâ Syndrome
It feels like two underdeveloped characters being paired because theyâre the only ones left âavailable.â
Chimney and Maddie are stable, like Hen and Karen.
Athena is grieving.
Buck and Eddie are locked in their narrative orbit.
Harry has an active arc.
Thatâs not organic storytelling. Thatâs roster management.
And itâs beneath this show.
Relationships Should Follow Growth â Not Replace It
If you want to build a couple:
First build the individuals.
Give them:
⢠Personal arcs.
⢠Independent stakes.
⢠Emotional depth.
⢠Evolution outside romance.
Then let their paths cross.
But if the relationship is the first real development either of them gets?
That sends a terrible message.
âYou matter now because youâre in a relationship.â
Thatâs not empowerment.
Thatâs narrative dependency.
And yes, from a feminist perspective, that bothers me deeply.
May should not become central because sheâs dating someone.
She should become central because sheâs compelling.
The Bigger Fear: Is This the Beginning of Narrative Shortcuts?
This is where it stops being about one couple.
After Bobbyâs death, early season nine was powerful. Focused. Intentional. Emotional.
Harryâs arc? Excellent. Compact but meaningful.
But when I start seeing convenient romantic shortcuts used as forward momentum?
Because Iâve seen this before.
I dropped Doc (the italian and original versione of tv series) for this exact reason: narrative choices that ignored established character growth.
And I watched the renewal battle for Manifest knowing that sometimes fewer seasons with integrity are better than dragging something past its natural lifespan.
If the trade-off for longevity is cheaper emotional storytelling?
This Is Disappointment, Not Hate
I respect this production.
If I didnât care, I wouldnât be this angry.
But when a show capable of layered character work makes what feels like the most obvious, safest, lowest-effort pairing choice?
Because 9-1-1 has always been better than easy.
Maybe Iâm wrong.
Maybe theyâll surprise me.
Maybe theyâll build something meaningful.
It feels obvious, banal, easy and small.
And this show deserves bigger.
