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Trans gatekeeping relies on a false certainty over who is really trans and who isn't
It gives definitive answers, sorts all trans people into whether or not their transition is going to be in their best interests
But this certainty is completely baseless and has never held up to scrutiny
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Kinda fucks me up how trans people can be hit with comphet from both sides
When I was 6, I was not capable of attraction yet, but I mentioned a friend who was a girl like twice in front of my parents, and since they thought I was a boy, my dad immediately decided I had a crush on her. He teased me about it so much that I eventually started believing it. It made interacting with her as a friend really scary and uncomfortable at times.
When I got older and started questioning if I had feelings for boys (in retrospect, I think my "gay awakening" was actually being exposed to the consept of trans women, without getting the needed vocabulary to really process that, but that's a story for another time) I realized my earlier crushes on girls had been Off, so I dismissed it all as comphet, and started identifying as a gay boy
That sure threw me for a loop when I got an actual crush on that friend a couple of years later. I switched over to bi
I'm skipping over a lot here, but fast forward to when I was talking to the gender specialists. They were much more gatekeep-y here 6 years ago than they are now, and I ended up getting rejected for treatment for a nimber of reasons, some of them valid (I wasn't out to anyone, and showed few signs of intending to come out) aome of them less so (I identified as bi) their definition of what a trans woman was allowed to be back then was very narrow. Girly. Gender conforming. Straight.
Norwayâs trans healthcare in the year 2021 really does say âyeah you should come out to everyone and live as your gender for a year before doing anything permanent like trying HRT and seeing if itâs for youâ in the age of the fucking internet
When all is done and your tools have cut into me when the audience roars and Satan asks me, "How was it?" know this, with every part of you that is able to know: I'll make sure to save you a seat in the coldest theater of hell.
L, To The Idiot Doctors of The World (2019)
So like itâs never ever cool to misgender a trans person for any reason, and being trans doesnât give anyone magical gatekeeping âtrue trans detectionâ powers. That is to say trans people should fucking well know better than to misgender other trans people. I donât care what the reason is because there is never a valid reason.
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How do I deal with other trans people who say that Non-Binary is not a valid identification because I don't ever plan to transition?
deposit them into the trash receptacle they call home.tell them about how nb genders have existed for thousands of years in varying cultures, how nb genders are being legally recognized now in some countries, how medical transition doesnât make you trans, remind them that there are binary trans people who donât medically transition.at the end of the day, if they want to learn, they will. Â if they fight with you on this, they belong firmly in the dumpster because the trans community does not need gatekeepers.-Mod Virgil
