I think I've made basically this same post before but. Occasionally on dating apps I'll see profiles that say they're looking for someone AFAB using that language specifically and you can tell they just mean someone who has a vagina and looks basically "womany" by their standards. And as a completely passing trans man who's had bottom surgery a part of me always wants to message them and when they inevitably aren't interested in me just be like "huh. But I'm AFAB that's what you wanted :/"















