Oct 30, 2025
Work is so confusing sometimes.
Boss went from “You’re too chatty. Please stay on task at all times (we do. I’m pretty sure she thinks we can’t chat AND focus on the task when really it’s the opposite) and minimize interaction with coworkers”
To chatting with me a little bit about how she liked my Alvin “costume” especially the tail. Which made us feel all warm and fuzzy and accepted again.
I never know where I stand with her and it can be frustrating, but I know she’s a good person and she’s just very particular in how she likes everything done.
Alvin and I will try and work harder on managing our RSD so that it doesn’t cause us to have sudden grief spirals.
#alvin and the chipmunks#costume#work#tail#boss#life update#confusion#actually autistic#actually adhd#this is tough#too chatty#can’t focus without music or quiet chatting#I do keep it quiet#it’s a library#I’m also not the only one chatting#the people who work at the front desk chat nonstop#but I digress#I’m off topic again#Halloween#yay#enjoying life#adhd rsd#rsd#management#trying not to take every criticism as a personal failing#and the planner is still working!#so is the visual timer#gonna miss the tail next week#I wonder if the boss noticed how extra focused and content and hard working I seemed with it on#fidget toys work in a pinch though
