Hereâs one for thoughts now, later or never, depending on how you feel about itâŠ
Got any headcanons or opinions about the 3 sisters of ThĂ©oden who werenât ThĂ©odwyn??? What they were like, where they were during the events that weâre all familiar with, what their relationship with ThĂ©oden was like, etc.? Itâs bonkers to me that we know they exist and that he preferred ThĂ©odwyn to the other sisters but thatâs. literally. it!
Omg what a good question! Thank you for leading my thoughts in that direction. There is SO MUCH to unpack there, and even more to imagine, because as you said Tolkien left us a lot of room there (euphemism of the month). I will allow myself to add Morwen Steelsheen to this reflection, because I think it makes sense to link her to her daughters, and similar questions arise around her character.
But Iâm a scientist, so letâs think about this rationally and stay organized. I will answer in four parts (Iâm not sorry about it)
1. What the canon actually says
2. What are the possibilities, what must be ruled out and why
3. Why I will NOT be going there with my current WIP pHORSEuasion
4. Freeform headcanons I still have on this matter!
Part 1: Deep dive in the canon
Most of what we know about Thengelâs family comes from a couple paragraphs in Appendix A. I have laid out this information in a timeline, with the following assumptions, which can be contested, but thatâs what I chose to work from:
-Only one child is born per year
-There are no twins in the family
-The first child of a couple is born at earliest one year after their wedding
-Ages given assume a birthday on January 1st. If the actual birthday happens after the event in the calendar year, the character would technically be one year âyoungerâ
2905: Thengel born in Rohan
2922: Morwen born in Gondor
2943: Thengel (age 38) and Morwen (age 21) marry in Gondor
Between 2944 and 2947: First daughter born in Gondor
2948: Théoden born in Gondor
Between 2949 and 2953: Second daughter born in Gondor
2953: Thengel (age 48) becomes king of Rohan
Between 2953 and 2962: Third daughter born in Rohan
2963: ThĂ©odwyn is born in Rohan. She is described as âa child of his (Thengel's) ageâ (Thengel is then 58 and Morwen is 41).
2977 or before: Théoden (age 29 or less) and Elfhild (age unknown) marry in Rohan
2978: Théodred born in Rohan. Elfhild (age unknown) dies
2980: Thengel (age 75) dies. Théoden (age 32) becomes king of Rohan
2989: ThĂ©odwyn (age 26) and Ăomund (age unknown) marry in Rohan
2991: Ăomer born in Rohan
2995: Ăowyn born in Rohan
3002: Ăomund (age unknown) and ThĂ©odwyn (age 39) die. Ăomer is then 11 and Ăowyn is 7
3017: Ăomer becomes Third Marshal (age 26)
3019: ThĂ©odred (age 41) and ThĂ©oden (age 71) die. Ăomer (age 28) becomes king of Rohan. Ăowyn (age 24) and Faramir (age 36) marry in Rohan
3020 or later: Elboron, son of Ăowyn and Faramir, born in Gondor.
3021: Ăomer (age 30) and Lothiriel (age 22) marry
Early Fourth Age: Elfwine, son of Lothiriel and Ăomer, born in Rohan.
Fourth Age 63: Ăomer (age 91) dies
Fourth Age 82: Faramir (age 120) dies
Therefore, we have at the start of the War of the Ring, letâs say in January 3019:
Definitely alive:
-Théoden
-Théodred
-Ăomer
-Ăowyn
Possibly alive (no canonical death):
-Morwen (age 97, but she is of Dunedain descent, so a long life is possible)
-Her three eldest daughters, with ages between 75 (if the eldest was born right after their parents' wedding, in 2944) and 57 (if the third daughter was born right before Théodwyn, in 2962)
A few extra notes on the canon
One thing that I had not fully realized before, is that Théodred is born and Elfhild dies when Théoden is not yet king. Therefore:
-Thengel technically met Théodred (he was 2 years old when his grandfather died)
-Elfhild, although Théoden's wife, was never queen of Rohan
-When Lothiriel becomes queen, Rohan has not had a queen since Morwen, 41 years earlier, at the death of Thengel in 2980
-Théodwyn was only 15, or going on 15, at that time. (I know that I have read somewhere the headcanon that she cared for Théodred from his birth, which is valid and possible, however in my opinion her age makes it doubtful that she would have been the main carer and parental figure.)
-Théoden ascends to the throne whilst bearing not only the immediate grief of his father, but also the relatively recent (2 years) loss of his wife.
Of ThĂ©odwyn, we know that she was âthe fairestâ and âher brother loved her dearlyâ. After her husband was killed, she âtook sick and died to the great grief of the kingâ. ThĂ©oden then âtook [her children] into his house, calling them son and daughterâ.
And we learn a little about Morwen when Ăowyn is described: âĂowyn was slender and tall, with a grace and pride that came to her out of the South from Morwen of Lossarnach, whom the Rohirrim had called Steelsheen.â
(I must say that I am questioning this past perfect âhad calledâ. It sounds like Morwen is not there anymore, otherwise past simple âcalledâ would have been used. But then, it is hard to pinpoint when in time the narrator is placing themselves in this passage. If referring to Ăowynâs early adult life, it would be a clue in the direction that Morwen is not alive anymore by the War of the Ring, or at least that she is not in Rohan anymore. If referring to an undefined point at the moment of writing in the Fourth Age, it means nothing at all. But weâre now at the level of microscopic details from the text!)
Part 2/4 coming eventually in a reblog!