#taboocafe

Just like some people accept Jesus Christ into their hearts, many of us accept the dominant culture into our hearts. What that means is that we walk this life distrusting everyone. We walk in fear thinking people are out to get us. We also go about our day not expressing how we feel and being compulsively dishonest, communicating things we don't really mean (like saying "sorry" constantly) and demanding the same from others. I say "how are you?" but I don't really want to know how you feel so please don't share your shit. I say "fine, thank you" but I am dying inside so understand my passive-aggressive tone and piss off or I'll verbally murder your guts for no reason. We are walking on eggshells whilst simultaneously shaming people if they chose not to enter this violent and punitive dynamic. Afraid. Anxious. Tired. Defensive. Detached. Isolated. Unseen. But with a brimming smile on our profile picture. The more we remove our deeper self from our faces, our actions and our expressions, the more we mutilate our heart and close it to the love that is available and the more we invest ourselves in a cycle of fear and disconnection. However, we call this kind of behaviour "being well-adapted". I am calling out that bullshit. There is nothing normal or beneficial about hiding and being ridden with fears. I want this world to be experienced as a brave space where I can be me, either silent in one corner witnessing or being loud and dancing, expressing all the joy that my child's heart has to share or all the rage and sadness when I am down and all the bliss when I am in the zone. I want to be heard, seen and received. I want to witness others and receive them in my heart. I want what I know is possible. I want spaces where I can disrupt and break my abidance to the dominant culture. And I want you to have it too. Join the brave space. Join Taboo Cafe. --- Next session in English 23/07/21, 8 pm UK time. Tickets £15 link in bio #taboocafe #communication #truth #disruption #play #bravespace #sharedresponsability #shareddiscovery #magic #thriving #collective #awakening #awareness #connection #downwiththedominantculture #wellbeing #everythingismyfamily https://www.instagram.com/p/CRma0xlhppi/?utm_medium=tumblr

'All (wo)men are the same!' - No, you act the same with each and one of them, so you get the same results. 'All politicians are the same, corrupt and stupid!' - No, you relate to politics and politicians the same way regardless of the party or the person in power and you get more-less the same experience. 'It's always the same thing with my father/mother/sibling/partner! They dont change!' - No, you are triggered in the same way, you react to them just like many times before and, like a mad person, you expect different results. It doesn't work, or does it? Acting like a badly programmed automaton that commits the same silly mistake over and over; always "tropezando de nuevo con la misma piedra". Disruption is the cure for this silly disease of our time. More importantly, disrupting a pattern is fun! For example, when you want to nag your partner about them leaving the kitchen cabinet doors open (again!!!) just say "potato". Or do a funky dance. Or go take a sh1t. Simply do something different from your usual BS! Observe yourself redirecting the energy from the trigger. Observe your compulsion to right a wrong, to be obeyed, to punish, to control an outcome. Observe it until you are sick of your own robotic impulses and lack of imagination. Then, start wondering, what else? "What else could I do instead of having a tantrum? What other options are available? What do I need to let go of? What voice of mine needs to be heard?" Dare to be a disruption agent. Dare to have fun reinventing your relationships. --- Wanna explore your patterns and disrupt them in a fun way within a brave space? Join me at #taboocafe. Next session in English 23/07/21 8pm UK time. Tickets: link in bio. #disruption #play #bravespace #sharedresponsability #shareddiscovery #magic #playwithus #thriving #collective #awakening #awareness #connection #relationships #wellbeing #everythingismyfamily #disruptionparty https://www.instagram.com/p/CRhY1FsBuvE/?utm_medium=tumblr

...there is no need to go to a medicine ceremony full of children so we can piggyback on their energy. The simple act of remaining present and in service to a child when being in their proximity suffices... Read the whole story in my blog. Link in bio. --- Let's talk about being a guest to this planet and how our lack of awareness in our relationship impacts our ability to feel self-love at #TabooCafe. Next session in English 24/06/21, 8pm UK time. Tickets: link in bio. #CafeTabu siguiente sesión en español 15/06/21, 7pm tiempo de MX. Boletos: WhatsApp +52 222 863 4933 #children #babies #child #guest #host #dynamicrelationships #selflove #radicalselflove #thriving #planetearth #grounding #anchoring #heavenandearth #collective #enmeshment #codependency #parenthood #wokeparenthood #gravity #awareness #connection #relationships https://www.instagram.com/p/CP6Vue9BiCX/?utm_medium=tumblr

I believe History is but a collection of passed on trauma. However, living in trauma and constantly reenacting trauma isn't all there is to life. We don't have to inflict our trauma onto others and pass it on. We don't have to isolate ourselves from the world because our only choice is to hold onto it. We can choose to take a step back from believing this is a flesh prison. Our story doesn't have to be based on History as we know it; the sequences and patterns established by traumatised folk namely wars, invasions, colonisation, erasure of identity or genocide. My story, your story can be something that doesn't exist in any History book, something that no one has ever described before, something fresh from the outskirts of reality where only magic and imagination reach. If we use History our best bet is to remain a trauma survivor,. I want to aim beyond that. I want you to aim beyond that too. Let's talk about self-love and how to move from trauma-based existence at #taboocafe. Next session in English 24/06/21 8pm UK time. Tickets: link in bio. En español 15/06/21 7pm tiempo de MX. Boletos: +52 222 863 4933 #cafetabu #history #story #imagination #magic #trauma #thisisafleshprision #connection #beauty #therealmofdreams #neverseenbefore #stoppingpatterns #notpassingiton #recovery #thriving #beyondsurvival #traumasurvivor #selflove #love https://www.instagram.com/p/CP4ap9rh-Q2/?utm_medium=tumblr

Acompañado de una buena taza de café, atrévete  a mirar por largo tiempo al abismo y que éste mire también dentro de ti. Empieza la conversación en Café Tabú. Tópico del mes: Orgasmo y Sexualidad. #cafetabu #taboocafe #amor360 #tomandocafe #vulnerability #vulnerabilidad #empatia #amor #empathy #love #reception #freedom #trust #compassion #confidential #confidencial #recepcion #libertad #confianza #compasion #conexion #reflexion #plenitud #connection #reflection #fulfillment https://www.instagram.com/p/CPMNwz3hXDR/?utm_medium=tumblr

Esta es una invitación al siguiente Café Tabú. El tópico será "Orgasmo y sexualidad". Este será un espacio confidencial de diálogo y expresión donde se podrán explorar estos y otros tópicos de manera guiada, divertida y libre de juicios. Boletos al +52 222 863 4933 para la versión en español y en el link en mi bio para la versión en inglés. #cafetaboo #taboocafe #dialogo #confianza #plenitud https://www.instagram.com/p/CPJzIP7hWJE/?utm_medium=tumblr

Read the entire story on my blog, link in bio. Search for "Andromeda and the sea of pain". Wanna talk trippy shit and go down to the bottom of things? Register for taboo.cafe. Next date: May 25th. #taboocafe #realtalk #healthyself #facebook #andromeda #tecnology #awareness #safeport https://www.instagram.com/p/CO_sVUVB0Ol/?utm_medium=tumblr

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