#speakurmind

Well said #motivate #beopen #speakurmind #dnthide #makeurownfuture #dreambig

This is a bit of a personal story but I’m not going to just sit back and be oppressed as a young black women. I played volleyball all my life. I’m an Honor Roll Student I don’t party I study and play the sport that I love. But recently when I came out about being molested everyone turned a foul ear. No one cared or wanted to listen, I was blamed for everything. All I’m saying is I want to start doing this so people who may be going through the same thing have something to relate to. Or if you just want to read it to read it I may not do these all in a row but I will do these more often. Please reblog and share it doesn’t have to be my blog. Just please get the word out😔😌

Even though the laptop is a different way of expressing yourself there are going to be those people who want to make you feel like shit and it’s not gonna help if I just close the laptop because when I open it it’s still going to be there I’m not gonna stop doing when I do because of some negative comments but it gets to you even on Tumblr or what pad or Instagram or Facebook it’s still there kind of like your phone wallpaper it’s not going away and you can delete it but you’re not gonna forget it which is why cyber bullying is still a thing not because were people looking for attention because it’s something that we can solve not because were just complaining about something it’s there because it still going on it’s still happening it’s not gonna stop unless someone puts their fucking foot down Now I’m not saying that this post is going to change the world I’m not even seeing this post is going to make a difference in how you see what you type online it’s hurtful to other people but what I am saying to those people who think that cyber bullying can be fixed by closing a laptop is that you’re wrong - Addendum - To The people who hear close the laptop Don’t because you’re doing what you love whether it’s Tumblr or Instagram or Facebook or what but it’s going to get you down you can’t think about it all the time but you might want to and I know it’s hard but just remember that every time you post online about something that makes you feel happy there could be someone who needed to hear They are awesome that they’re beautiful and that they are human that’s the reason people don’t close the laptops and it’s one of the reasons why you should never close yours So thankyou for not shutting down your laptop -Srv

Bette Davis

Find a tactful way to be firm. #useyourvoice #speakup #speakout #alwaysbekind #quoteoftheday

Ada satu quotes yang sering sekali aku dengar di berbagai sosial media akhir-akhir ini. Isinya kira-kira begini: “Jadilah perempuan yang rajin belajar, karena anak-anak mu berhak lahir dari rahim ibu yang cerdas. ” Kurang lebih begitu. Entah siapa yang membuatnya, tapi menurutku ada yang aneh dari kata-kata itu. Apa itu artinya karena tidak melahirkan, Laki-laki boleh bermalas-malasan? Boleh tidak cerdas? Menurutku, dalam pernikahan, perempuan bukan sebagai subordinasi dari laki-laki, pun sebaliknya, laki-laki juga bukan subordinasi dari perempuan. Tidak ada yang superior, tidak ada yang inferior. Tapi seimbang, sejajar, saling menopang. Masing-masing telah dianugerahi dengan kodrat yang sama mulianya. Jadi menurutku bukan hanya perempuan, laki-laki juga harus cerdas. Karena setiap anak berhak dididik oleh Ayah dan Ibu yang cerdas. Dan setiap orangtua sama-sama bertanggung jawab akan hal itu.