Can we get something straight here about Penelope and this whole āSpartanā thing?
Sure, we all know Penelope was from Sparta (well, technically), and weāve all seen enough 300-inspired pop culture nonsense to think that every Spartan woman must be some spear-wielding, leather-clad, muscle-bound badass. So letās clear that up once and for all: Penelope was absolutely not that type of Spartan. In fact, that vision of Spartan women is more of a modern fantasy than an actual reflection of Spartan society, and Penelope herself would probably laugh in your face if you tried to pin her down to that archetype.
First off, letās talk about what it actually meant to be Spartan. Yes, Spartan women had a reputation for being strong, but we need to understand that strength wasnāt defined by throwing a spear or taking down enemies with a shield. Spartan women were celebrated for their physical health and were tasked with producing strong offspring to build the next generation of warriors. They were also responsible for the running of the household when their husbands were off fighting in wars, which meant managing estates, controlling property, and overseeing the everyday operations of Spartan life. So, while Spartan women were not helpless, they werenāt exactly wandering around with weapons, challenging every person who crossed them, either.
Penelopeās version of Spartan strength was a little more intellectual, shall we say. For twenty years, while Odysseus was āgetting lostā (as one does), Penelope faced down a horde of suitors who were camped out in her house, constantly pressuring her to choose a new husband. Did she pull out a spear and kill them all? No. Thatās not what spartan women did. Did she start a war? Absolutely not. Instead, she employed the ultimate weapon: patience. She weaved and un-wove a shroud for years as a stalling tactic, keeping the suitors at bay. Sure, thereās no sword involved, but letās be real: that takes more cunning than any weapon ever could.
Spartan women are not known for fighting, but for surviving.
Penelopeās Spartan roots may have given her the ability to endure, to manage her household, and to outsmart the suitors who had overrun Ithaca, but weāre missing the point if we think that means she was out there battling it out like a heroine from some action flick. Her version of strength was mental, not physical. Instead of wielding a spear, Penelope wielded her intellect, her wit, and her ability to play the long game. If youāre expecting Penelope to start slaying suitors left and right, or charging into battle with a sword in hand, youāre setting yourself up for disappointment.
Pop culture would love to turn Penelope into a spear-wielding warrior queen, but the actual historical context is far more subtle and far more impressive. She was Spartan in the most meaningful sense of the word: resilient, strategic, and damn clever.
Penelope did not need muscles at all. She had the power of endurance ā something a spear canāt give you.