"Do you enjoy the rush that you get when you actually click with a person?"

This is one of my main goals of seeking friendships and relationships. if there isn't a rush, I feel like something is missing and if there isn't anything that makes me stay, I'll leave the friendship/relationship. I prioritise connections that give me a rush, mentally, emotionally or physically and call them my best friend or potential partner.

"As soon as you click, do you have this need to know everything about them ?"

Yes. I tend to share about myself more if I'm interested in someone, and I want to know all about them. it's like bearing my true self with the person and vice versa. this is also one of the main goals of making connections for me, feeling comfortable enough to share everything with the other. I'm almost always digging for something more to learn about the person.

'Do you struggle prioritizing positions, connections, and interests when you get hooked on to someone?'

I tend to prioritise the person I'm hooked onto. other connections I might give little attention to after I find a person to hook on to. in fact, I also tend to always be hooked onto something if I can't find a person to hook on to, draining the life out of it. that's how I operate.

Hmm...now that you've talked about yourself a bit more, I do see some hints of sx.

But since I don't know you personally, or haven't seen you interact with the world, I don't think my typing would be accurate.

But here are a few more things that might help:

See what your connections are based on. I have friends who on first glace might come off as sx-users, however their primary method of connection is through compatibility, and interests, which makes them so-users an sx-blind. They enjoy finding people who prefers being a part of a group that they are interested in. A lot of them would rather play the social game of 'getting to know' than destroy the concept of boundaries when they are talking to someone.

What makes you paranoid ? Does it bother you when your partner is careless about finances, security, safety (Note, this would look different based on your enneagram type, but the fundamentals are usually the same)? Does it bother you when you can't connect with your partner through similar interests? Does it bother you when you can't introduce them to your friend group? This might be superficial, but while finding a partner, is them following the dating culture a very important aspect to you? Or, is it important that your partner matches your energy level, which is extremely intense, and self-consuming(as absurd as it sounds, that's exactly what it feels like to have sx)? Do you find yourself annoyed when the said person isn't bound to you, or if you can't be bound to them? Would you immediately reject someone, or be extremely upset if your partner or anyone you are interested in gets overwhelmed by your energy, or sometimes calls it unhealthy because, it's weird to feel that way?

Cardi B

Nancy Wheeler (Stranger things, also her actress in general)

Jane (Jane the Virgin)

Ariana Grande

Drake

Winona Ryder

Steve Harrington (Stranger Things, also his actor)

Taylor Swift

Zayn Malek

dom!brow in action (x)

The most defining difference is in their concept of privacy.

sp-doms are very guarded and you can know them several years without “knowing” them really. They are also way more hesitant to let people inside their home, even close friends.

Harvey ~ “Feet!”

Mike ~ Naughty school boy. 😂

Jensen: moans..

Dom mode activated, your sub is shaking

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oh he.. OMG HE!!!

although I may not be 100% confident all the time, I will try my best on what maybe in my idea would help as a fellow so-dom~~

1) stop worrying about what people think!!!! I know its easier said then done, but once you make the realization that a majority of people are so self-absorbed (not necessarily bad) VERY few people will remember if you committed a social faux-paus, I try to live by the quote that really resonates with me,  “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” - Maya Angelou

2) be authentic!! it may be my aux Fi/ 4 talking, but also in my experience  if your actions, words, thoughts to do not match who you are, not only you will not feel complete with yourself, but people will also pick up on a level of in-authenticity! 

3) socializing should be fun, free, and exciting! I think people tend to have a disposition to interacting w/ people either from a place of fear, suspicion, annoyance, etc. any “negative” emotion. Regardless of the other person’s disposition, if you yourself hold a positive state going into interacting, you will never be let down!!! the person could be the absolute WORST, hateful, bigoted, etc etc person on the planet, and if you allow yourself to maintain a positive mindset no matter how contrasting beliefs you hold from that person, you will never be dragged down

4) Most likely, people with will not share you exact hobbies, interests, views, beliefs, and THATS GREAT! relating to number 3, confidence comes from a place of being SO secure, positive, tapped in to your being, you don’t feel the need to change anything about yourself, or other people at any time. Trust me, once you start to make positive changes for yourself, you will only attract the likeness into your life and social sphere. it doesn’t matter how bad the “industry” or world is, the best, most loving act you can do for other people, is well being selfish - not in the colloquial term. but it is NOT your job to make other people happy or change anything about anyone else - that’s theirs. 

5) feel what’s right for you. some people feel super confident wearing full glam, getting a little plastic surgery, wearing a whole outfit every single day - and if they resonate with that, thats great! other people feel super comfortable wearing all baggy clothes with not at care in the world about expectations on how they should look - and thats great!! like I said, the worst thing you could do is shift your mindset to fit whatever you THINK you should be doing. trust me - you will not “perpetuate the cycle of discrimination against women”  if you love makeup, and you will notl “never find the perfect mate” if your not super fit, and have an affinity for “glamorous things” 

hmm… well the want / aspiration to be attractive, hot, desirable is definitely a human trait more than anything

but to quote you “not giving a damn if someone likes you or not / popular” definitely doesn’t strike me as being social dom. So/sx & So/sp in my opinion, would have different reasons for not really identifying with this statement, but especially social dom. is based on the notion that we need to find a collective, group, to be accepted within in to feel safe & quite often groups can gives an overwhelming sense of anxiety, even if we are very sociable people (due to placing huge value of being accepted)

also social dom. does not equal, but can at some points, resonate with wanting to being accepted by a group of power, status, popularity, etc. 

the main point is So-dom focuses on being within a group no matter what the circumstances to fulfill their So-drive

so your question kinda gives me either Sx/so vibes or Sx/sp tbh~