Gen Question: is it saneism to not want to be friends with someone with BPD or NPD unless theyβre actively seeking therapy or in remission? I donβt have a problem with people with BPD or NPD I just donβt want to be treated like shit because the person isnβt putting in effort to work on themself or manage their disorder.
Yes, you're directly implying that having a disorder is going to make them treat you like shit and for that reason alone you are avoiding them. While people with cluster b disorders can be assholes, having a cluster b disorder does not automatically guarantee they're gonna be.













