so iām pretty sure iām close to shifting and that it will happen soon , but i think iām holding myself back because iām worried about getting too attached to relationships in my dr. iām not really looking to shift to form actual relationships with people there , i more so want to experience things iāll never get to in my cr , but i do want some romantic experiences with people. I never want to shift there permantly and i donāt want to be constantly missing people from my dr , i have a life here. Basicsally i view shifting as an opportunity to escape from my real life but i donāt think i want to live out one full life there (iād rather experience a few different ones) . Do you think that view of shifting is harmful in anyway ? iām just really cautious about getting way to attached and i donāt want to āfall in loveā with someone i canāt ever really have a life with.
I answered this and posted but mobile said LOL NOPE .... I hate it here
So firstly, itās 100% okay to not want to be overly attached to your DR and that is totally normal!! So youāre not doing anything wrong or āholding yourself backā For me it is healthy to shift as a āhobbyā and not to completely leave this CR and live in your DR all the time. (Thatās like r*spawning and I donāt support that.)
As a tip, put into your script that you wonāt get overly attached and that you have a healthy balance between your DR and CR! Also listen to subliminals that include things like āI wonāt get obsessed with my DRā āI will return to my CR happy and re-energizedā things like that! Itāll help āre-wireā your brain so that you can shift no problem!!
TLDR: youāre not doing anything wrong, itās a totally normal thing to worry about, just relax and script that you wonāt get overly attached!
