so i’m pretty sure i’m close to shifting and that it will happen soon , but i think i’m holding myself back because i’m worried about getting too attached to relationships in my dr. i’m not really looking to shift to form actual relationships with people there , i more so want to experience things i’ll never get to in my cr , but i do want some romantic experiences with people. I never want to shift there permantly and i don’t want to be constantly missing people from my dr , i have a life here. Basicsally i view shifting as an opportunity to escape from my real life but i don’t think i want to live out one full life there (i’d rather experience a few different ones) . Do you think that view of shifting is harmful in anyway ? i’m just really cautious about getting way to attached and i don’t want to “fall in love” with someone i can’t ever really have a life with.
I answered this and posted but mobile said LOL NOPE .... I hate it here
Hello anon!
So firstly, it’s 100% okay to not want to be overly attached to your DR and that is totally normal!! So you’re not doing anything wrong or “holding yourself back” For me it is healthy to shift as a “hobby” and not to completely leave this CR and live in your DR all the time. (That’s like r*spawning and I don’t support that.)
As a tip, put into your script that you won’t get overly attached and that you have a healthy balance between your DR and CR! Also listen to subliminals that include things like “I won’t get obsessed with my DR” “I will return to my CR happy and re-energized” things like that! It’ll help “re-wire” your brain so that you can shift no problem!!
TLDR: you’re not doing anything wrong, it’s a totally normal thing to worry about, just relax and script that you won’t get overly attached!
