#sgplp

Honestly, I used to hate my body so much but recently I really love it. I'm actually so happy with my body, like so what I my boobs are small? I still have a small waist, and nice long legs, i'm really learning to love myself and it's all thanks to tumblr and models etc because they make me feel pretty. Like wtf we're naturally skinny, let's be happy about that, we only get one body and we should love it.

Just recently I started to love myself, these days I saw a picture of a really attractive thin woman on instagram, noticed that she had stretch marks on her breast area... I loved myself a bit more after that, not because I felt "better" than her (I am not one of those curvy-nazi ones), but because she was stunning... And the stretch marks did not make her less stunning than she is, that made me see that my own stretch marks do not reduce me to anything, I am beautiful too, with or without that!

I am trying to accept myself even though it's really hard. I am very insecure about my lack of butt and boobs and curves but for right now I'm just focusing on making my butt toner, so maybe if it isn't "big" enough it's still healthy and cute. But I do have my bad days where I relapse into self hate again. But I guess that's just part of accepting yourself, some days will be better than others and some days will be harder, but I just have to focus on the finish product.

Tbh I hate when fat or curvy women say "at least i have something he can grab" wtf! No, you dont need to be grabbed by a boy to love yourself

To the anon: I've also spent years trying to lose weight, I even gave myself to anorexia and bulimia at some point. I was FAT and had DEPRESSION. Now I am SKINNY and HEALTHY. Guess what? When you stop being a "fatass" you realize that skinny people are not responsible for your fat. YOU are the only one responsible for that. So stop being an ass "it makes me sick when you complain" if makes me sick when "fatasses" start being rude with skinny people bc they are not one. Stop being a damn victim.

I wish more skinny girls would love their bodies the way it is, I support if they want to gain weight.. Because it is their own acceptance that really matters. But I wish that more people would see that being skinny is ok too, until not so long ago I felt disgusted by seeing a little of my ribs and my back bones whenever I bent... But honestly, now I think so what? Why should I try to hide what I have on me? I am skinny (and I am not dying), I am healthy so there's nothing wrong with me (:

People keep making body shaming a fight to see which one hurts more and the saddest part of it is that it's used as an excuse to somehow try and make any type of body shaming 'acceptable', thing that in any way is wrong. All that energy and arguments should be used for body diversity acceptance because all bodies are beautiful from just existing.

When will people stop fighting about which is worse? Who dreaming cares? People should care about each other's feelings for Gods sake. I'm skinny and I would not fat shame or body shame in general because who am I to make someone feel awful about their body? And if I have personal issues I should work them out with myself, not take it out on others.