#sgplove

So today I got this comment from a friend telling me that another friend (male) said that nobody would ever want to fuck me because I am a flat pole and that Im only bones and skin or something like that. I wasn't shocked at all, it's nothing that ive haven't heard before and it doesn't afect me because I know it's not true. My question is what can I tell him back?

Tbh I hate when fat or curvy women say "at least i have something he can grab" wtf! No, you dont need to be grabbed by a boy to love yourself

My friend was talking about her new bf today. She's not considered fat, she's a little chubby and insecure. But of course she labels her self as curvy. She said something like "my bf says that he likes curvy girls, and sticks are not fun to cuddle with, bonny chicks are gross." I couldn't believe she said it in front of me. I'm a skinny girl my and she pretty much put me down. I know she didn't mean to hurt my feelings. But I cannot believe that putting down skinny girl was comforting for her.

(To the anon about her guy friend making a comment about her body). I honestly find it hilarious how guys think that makes them funny or cool. Because who wants to date a guy who says rude and demeaning things like that? I also think guys show off around their guy friends to look more manly or masculine, but I seriously don't understand the appeal of being a complete asshole. Can any guys tell me why certain guys act like that?

I LITERALLY DONT UNDERSTAND SKINNY SHAMING, FAT SHAMING, OR BODY SHAMING IN GENERAL. IF YOU DONT LIKE MY BODY THEN OH WELL, SORRY TO DISAPPOINT YOU BUT ITS NOT LIKE I WAS MADE ESPECIALLY/SPECIFICALLY FOR YOU. OBVIOUSLY I LACK BODILY THINGS THAT A LOT OF GUYS WOULD DEEM AS ATTRACTIVE BUT THEN WHY IS IT NECESSARY TO MAKE COMMENTS ABOUT IT? I already know and I have trouble dealing with it so thanks for making it worse.

"Welll.... You're really skinny, but your face is pretty and you're nice " Like I feel like it's a positive and negative thing when I hear stuff like that. Like they don't actually find me attractive.

I don't understand why people would even let men value women by their body type. I feel that is a completely wrong way to "empower" women to love their body. Saying a men love bigger or smaller women is such a generalization and doesn't add or lose value to anyone. Is that something that also bothers you? I feel like no one brings this up.

I kinda feel the same way the other anon felt. Although we have all had puberty for years I still look less developed than my friends and I know that looks aren't all that matter (because I have a great personality) but I don't think that it will compromise for what I lack physically.