I Married Myself in a Prison Cell
There was a day — not so long ago — when I sat inside a concrete box, caged by four walls, and yet freer than I’d ever been in the outside world. I had no phone. No mirror. No distraction. Just a pen, some paper, and the unbearable weight of my own presence. That was the moment I married myself.
While others waited for letters or visits, I turned inward and wrote. Hundreds of pages. No audience. No applause. Just truth. One of those pages, I read again today. A vow. A promise made in silence but signed with fire.
"I promise to love you, César, every day and night, for eternity..."
I wasn't trying to sound poetic. I wasn’t performing. I was surviving. I was choosing self-loyalty in a world that had tried to erase me.
You see, when society locks you up, it thinks it’s punishing you. But if you’re awake, if you’re conscious, you use that solitude to burn away illusions. I stopped waiting for someone to save me. I stopped blaming. I faced the mirror I had become. And in that radical self-confrontation, I said: never again will I abandon myself.
The Weapon of Ink and Iron
Fast forward to now. I'm out. But part of me never left that cell — and that’s a good thing. Because the clarity I gained there is something I never want to lose.
A few days ago, I bought a Blackletter calligraphy pen.
To most, it’s just an art tool. To me, it’s a ritual blade. Blackletter — that old Gothic script, rigid and powerful — was used in sacred manuscripts. And now, I use it to write to myself. To tattoo my own truths on paper with precision. There’s something ceremonial about this. Like carving declarations into stone. Like building a temple with your own breath.
So I printed a guide sheet. Drew the lines. Honored the angle. Practiced the rhythm. Because I know: if I’m going to speak to my soul, it better be in a language that carries weight.
A New Kind of Love Story
This isn’t about aesthetics. This isn’t romantic fluff. This is about identity, discipline, and devotion.
The world sells us lies about love: that we have to find someone else to feel complete. But what if your soulmate is your own essence? What if your purpose isn't to seek, but to remember?
Every time I read that vow I wrote in prison, I cry — not from sadness, but from power. Because I know that no external relationship will ever match the commitment I made to myself.
I became my own husband, lover, father, brother, and best friend. I promised never to betray myself again. And that promise is alive — in every ritual, every stroke of the pen, every quiet moment I choose presence over performance.
Why This Matters (For You Too)
If you're reading this, maybe you're in your own kind of prison. Maybe it's not bars — maybe it's addiction, distraction, noise, fear. Maybe you've forgotten who you are because the world keeps screaming who you "should" be.
I’m telling you now: you can marry yourself too. You can write your truth. You can promise loyalty to your soul and never break it again.
Grab a pen. Lock the door. Light a candle. And listen. The real you has been waiting for your return.
The truth will set you free. Enter the temple >>> The Black Box
