#self centered

its okay to help others but you should help u first. lets take a look at the self respect aspect and the self love aspect of putting urself first…💬🎀

SELF RESPECT ASPECT ;

we cultivate self respect through making boundaries with ourselves and with other's and sticking to them. sticking to our word cultivates self respect and builds trust within urself to do what u said u were gonna do. some examples of boundaries with urself can include

♡ having a bed time ♡ having specific work hours and study hours ♡ boundaries that are formed on ur values/religion ♡ saying no when u dont want to do something

boundaries with urself and how u treat urself shows others how to treat u. it also lets others know that u dont play about urself and they can't push on ur boundaries. and if u communicate ur boundaries clearly with someone and they push on ur boundaries then they dont actually like u and its best if u cut them off.

SELF LOVE ASPECT ;

when u pour into urself and show urself the love that u deserve by taking care of urself in the best way that u can, ur cultivating ur self love. if u take care of urself and ur affairs, would the opinion of a nobody be relevant you? no ofc not. cuz u know that their opinion doesn't hold power over u. no one's opinion of u should dictate who you are, only your own.