He really doesn’t understand, like at all, but he tries nonetheless
He’s doesn’t get the small clues that you are anxious and uncomfortable, at least not in the start
He reads about anxiety and how to help someone with it
He slowly learns the small clues that show you are anxious
It doesn’t come natural to him and he has to work really hard to
But eventually he learns how to handle it and he does his best to help you when times are hard
1p Canada/Matthew Williams
He gets it, he’s a bit anxious himself, so he quickly picks up the small clues that tell him how you are feeling
He comforts you immediately and takes you away from the anxiety provoking situation
He talks to you about what makes you anxious and helps you through those things
He puts your needs and comfort over his own, so he will do things that make him anxious if it helps you to be less anxious
You will always have a hand to hold when you are scared and anxious
Would not understand why you are acting so weird in the start, but would soon connect the dots and come to the conclusion that you’ve got some anxious shit going on
Would ask you how he can help you
Will also ask how this affects sex because he has no shame
If this upsets you he will quickly apologise and promise to be more serious
He will get back to actually being helpful after that little misadventure
He will learn what triggers you and what helps you, so that he can help avoid bad things
2p Canada/James “Matt” Mathieu Williams
Would much like his brother also not get it either in the start, he would straight up ask you why you are acting so weird
This would probably not be helpful and might make you cry, and this is where he realises he fucked up
Will apologise profusely when he finds out why you are acting strange
Will offer to do stuff for you to make life easier for you
Will ask his brother for help, but Allen knows jack shit about it and will give some not so appropriate advice
Matt decides not to listen to his dumbass brother