mentioning disagreements, fights, or arguments, as this is something ALL married couples experience. Having an argument or disagreement is not TOXIC.

mentioning the Clovis incident, because yeah Anakin shouldn't have beaten him half to death but also last time Padmé was alone with Clovis she almost died. Anakin knew Clovis was very into her, and the dude was literally working with the Separatists--who also had tried to have Padmé assassinated on many occasions–not to mention, in the Revenge of the Sith novelization Palpatine LITERALLY ADMITS that he knew about Anakin and Padmé's secret ceremony on Naboo, he admits he knew they were married to Anakin's face, and he intentionally assigned Padmé to Clovis in that second TCW Clovis arc because he wanted to drive a wedge between them which ended up failing in the long run. "The Clovis Incident" is literally part of a manipulation and not a natural progression of their relationship.

mentioning the "choking incident" on Mustafar because at that point, he was Vader. Yes, he's still Anakin Skywalker, but he's been so corrupted by the Dark Side that this doesn't exactly count toward Anakin– him doing this and turning to the Dark Side is literally so out of character, so UNLIKE Anakin that Padmé loses the will to live because she feels like she's lost Anakin because Anakin would NEVER do this. (In the Legends EU, so many characters act EXTREMELY out of character once they give in to the Dark Side. Take Ulic Qel-Droma, or Exar Kun, both Jedi who wanted to forward the cause of the Jedi and then inexplicably support the Sith after experimenting with the Dark Side.)

Star Wars: The Clone Wars (3/?)

RUSH CLOVIS??

Strongest plot armor in the Star Wars franchise, the TCW Clovis arc is INSANE

This chud picked a fistfight with ANAKIN??

The man has BUILT IN BRASS KNUCKLES.

And the animation realizes this for half a beat where he punches the metal prosthetic arm and reels back in pain, but the story pulls back considerably on the damage where Anakin is actively crashing out on his FACE and he just has A BRUISE and a puffy lip

You have ...

A Jedi Knight in his physical prime ...

Mid dark side crash out ...

Throwing his entire bodyweight ...

Into his DURASTEEL FIST ...

At the nasal cavity of a white collar banker whose primary exercise is ledgers and spreadsheets

Clovis’s head should have looked like a dropped watermelon.

At the very least, his jaw should be unhinged, his nose shattered into his brain cavity, and his orbital bones turned to dust.

Instead, Clovis took a durasteel piston to the forehead six times and walked away needing an ice pack.

Bro he has a metal arm and is an active combatant in a war. You are an accountant!