#relationship terms

Indifferentship: a relationship term where one is disinterested in labeling their relationship with others or finds it unimportant.

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This flag does not have ID, id write outs would be appreciated.

— Fictosimilove or FS/O

[pt: fictosimilove or fs/o]

a term for when one selfships with their partners / crushes source (fictionkin, introject, etc) for whatever reason.

you may feel as if this is one whole relationship, or two seperate ones that sometimes come together to make one, or maybe just two separate relationships in general.

this term may be used to 'put a face' on who they like / are dating, to associate the two as the same / alike, or to avoid any confusion in ones brain when talking about their crush / partner, but none of these above is needed to use the term, these are just examples.

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tagging,, @radiomogai , @rabidbatboy , @rottenoracle , idk who else to tag i need a taglist..

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a relationship that is by definition gay/queer, but due to the members of the relationship’s transness, has a (trans)het couple vibe to it.

TRANSQUEERSETIC

Gothic terms of endearment

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My agony, my anguish, my affliction

My black bird, my (best) beloved

My cure, my curse, my crow, my curious corvid, my calamity

My darling, my dearest, my desire, my desperation, my deadly viper, my delight, my dear (one), my dove

My heart, my heart's desire, my heart's coffin, my heart's queen/king, my heart's gleam

My joy

My lethal venom, my lullaby

My moonlight

My nightmare, my nightshade

My oath, my own hearts root

My poison, my peerless paramour

My rose, my raven, my reaper

My sorrow, my sweet(est) (one), my Sweeting

My torment, my treasure

The absence of my pain

The cure to my heartache

The one I delight in, the one who gives me pleasure

Amor/amour, adoration

Culver

Dear heart, dereworthy heart

Miting

relationship manager

A relationship manager is a headmate who maintains relationships for the system, either by participating in them directly and/or by handling aspects of them for the headmates participating in them. This is mostly coined to refer to romantic and queerplatonic relationships, but can also be used for "regular" platonic and familial ones as well. Additionally, this can include in-system relationships as well as external relationships. This can include the following: -participating in relationships personally -engaging with aspects of a relationship that not all headmates engage with -communicating needs in relationships on headmates' behalf -planning dates (without necessarily being the headmate going on the date) -helping headmates decide who they should date -helping headmates manage emotions or symptoms that make relationships difficult This can overlap with and be considered a subset of other roles depending on how the system uses them (e.g. manager or protector), but it can also exist as a role unrelated to other roles. This is separate from the similarly-named role "love manager". A love manager splits having a partner and a high level of knowledge of relationships, but neither of these things are inherent to the role of a relationship manager.

Simplified flag:

After seeing a poll go around on who is most likely to cheat amidst the BG3 companions, (all in good fun and for solid fanfic ideas and general discussion which is fine so no salt from me there), I've had some real gnoll-turds show up and clutch their damn pearls at me.

So I quickly sketched out a comic to better hammer home the idea that the equation of "Non-Monogamy = Cheating" is not only not true, but insanely closed-mnided and ignorant. If you're monogamous just say so and move on. Hells, avoid poly conversations and business altogether if it gets yer damn knickers in a knot. This ain't an airport. You don't need to announce your departure from the fandom or friendgroup because someone prefers the color blue over red.

So for my followers, BG3 poly babes, even my non-poly babes who are actually incredibly awesome people, please have my very tired and in no way extensive mini-vent.

Look up the definitioin of cheating. Follow that up with the definition of insecurity. Then finish it with the definition of ignorance. We are way to far into civilization and growth as a community for people to still be screeching like sheltered nobles at the local circus.

Don't like poly or open relationships and don't agree with them. Cool. You're allowed to think and feel that way. Disengage and move on. By all means, the door is right there, darling. Go clutch your pearls at a convent for the fainty-dainty and let me kiss my wife, her girlfriend, and my boyfriend in peace without you peaking through my damn curtains and screaming about it like a punch of pervy creeps.

in addition to qupla & xenfriend, here’s some more! all of these are to be used like enby/boy/girlfriend.

greyfriend: a greyro (or greysexual, etc) person in a relationship

softfriend: a partner in a soft romo relationship, or it could just be a cute word for your partner!

(emoji)friend: could mean a person who uses emojiself pronouns who’s in a relationship, or using an emoji as symbolic of a person, or it could just be cool!

arofriend: an aro person in a relationship

quoifriend: a quoiro (or quoisexual, etc) person in a relationship