Last time in therapy, our therapist said "it sounds like your system is going through kind of a reset" in reference to some of the structure changes hastened by the breakup. My therapist doesn't know the term "system reset", but I think we're going through one right now. Not one of the ones where all the alters go away and they're replaced by new ones, but one of the ones where major things about the structure and fronting patterns change.





















