the stage becomes a ship in flames

person : hey i used to be a bigot/abuser but i made active efforts to be a better person and i'm now not that person anymore

comments : ok do you want a pat on the back for the bare fucking minimum. fuck you. evil irredeemable person

like you realize that people can be raised into harmful ideologies and not question them until later in life and that it takes introspection and active efforts to understand your harmful actions and make change to your behavior right

it may be the bare minimum for civil behaviour, but actually getting yourself out of harmful mindsets is fucking hard. stop pretending it isn't. you are not immune to propaganda. you're not infallible.

edit : heads up, i turned notifs for this off because there's just too many to deal with- maybe i'll turn them back on when things calm down

Head of Anubis                          

Egypt. New Kingdom 1550 – 1077 B.C.

roleic

A roleic (pronounced "roh-LAY-ick") is an identity experienced by a system member in which they feel a certain thing is tied to or involved with their role, status, or experience in the system, without that thing necessarily being the role in and of itself. Roleics can center around just one thing, or one roleic term may have multiple things involved with it at once, much like how xenogenders can be comparing the gender to just one thing or to multiple at once. Reasons a system member might want to designate something a roleic include: -they interact with that thing as part of their role (e.g. "foodroleic" for a caretaker whose role involves preparing food for the system) -the way they experience their role involves that thing (e.g. "historyroleic" for a trauma holder who has a timeline wherein the equivalent of the system's trauma from this life happened to someone in a different era of history) -it has to do with their origin as a system member (e.g. "maniaroleic" for a system member who split during a manic episode) -it has to do with their in-system identity (e.g. "magicroleic" for a fictive from a fantasy series about magic) Some might conceptualize this as "a xenogender but for system roles", which would not be fully inaccurate, but these are not inherently genders. They are comparable to xenogenders in the sense that, like how xenogenders are related to things one would not necessarily typically think of as relating to genders, roleics are related to things that one would not necessarily think of as relating to system roles. This is also different from xenorole in that a xenorole is, in and of itself, a role. While someone might consider one's roleic to be one's role as well, the definition of roleic is that it is or feels INVOLVED in the role without (necessarily) being the role itself. A roleic can be used to describe how one experiences any type of role, or multiple roles at once, and what constitutes a "role" in the first place is up to the system member defining themself. This can also be used for aspects of the system experience that the system member does not consider part of their role but still thinks is part of their identity as a system member.

Currently undescribed

(left) Suicideroleic⟴ / Suicideroleic(SCP): a term for when one's identity as suicideroleic is affected by, connected to, or simply is the SCP Foundation

(right) Suicideroleic🌱❤️ / Suicideroleic(son): a term for when one's identity as suicideroleic or with suicideroleic is affected by being a son and/or sonhood

More self-indulgent xsymbol terms! xSCP (link) coined by @enderluna, xson (link to flag) coined by @destoral with flag by @mogaimint, and suicideroleic (link) coined by @ix-c-999. Roleics are totally underrated

Hitch with different black hairstyles

some words have violent history directed towards intersex people . if one would not argue that cisgender people can freely say tranny , then should not argue that perisex people can freely say hermaphrodite . no , scientific term is not defense for this , as even sciences phase out use of this term for alternatives with clearer definitions . hermaphrodite was always meant to devalue humanity and deviation from " human standards " - scientific use for animals come as result of that devaluation , not just coincidental .

ASAB indicate nothing about one's actual life circumstances . this is label for what doctors decide sex to be based on infantile measurements , and that decision may include surgical force . even so , external anatomy do not always match expectations for internal anatomy , chromosomes , and/or hormones . phrases like " AFAB chests " mean nothing : say breasts , say breast tissue , speak clearly . 

ASAB is also not indicator of how childhood go . some intersex kids will grow up with gendered expectations that change between places and time periods , never really just one . some will grow up with gendered expectations , but always lower class of this gender , free for others to take away and wave around as threat . some will grow up and have puberty that defy these expectations , then get legal reassignment to correlate . several of these things , as well as others not stated , may be true at once . if intersex person say that childhood relationship with legal sex , personal gender , and/or gendered expectations was complex , do not pretend that this is too uncommon to care about - stand for one another , not against . 

if intersex person identify with genders that do not seem to make sense , do not disregard this as simple troll . some intersex people will be cistrans , where experiences of gender fall into both modalities . some will be transfemmasc , or even cisfemmasc , because of how people degender and/or inconsistently gender . understand that most free and intersex-friendly definition of transgender is not one which rely on personal deviation from AGAB , but on personal deviation from any form of gendered expectation - be that legal , societal , or simply personal history .