#relationship form

THIRD (?) POST OF THE DAY EVERYBODYYY Anyways- our Relationship Form is updated...and hopefully looks good on everyone's devices! (Sorry if it's not-) And a rentry intro is also link in there! Below the title, to be specific! You may read it, even if you aren't interested in the relationship form! As we don't have a detailed pinned intro on Tumblr anyways- (If you aren't interested right now, just know that our form will always be open and in our pinned post (⁠｡⁠•̀⁠ᴗ⁠-⁠)⁠✧ [vsilly])

I do believe it can be possible for you to find companionship with someone while still identifying as akoi. It may not fall under the category of a traditional relationship, but for some, that is the entire purpose. Queer Platonic Relationships are often an alternative for akoiromantic people. If you haven’t heard of the term, you can read about it here. I’ve also found the following image to be incredibly helpful when declaring boundaries and such when experimenting with different types of relationships: 

All employees are reminded to have these filled out and on for each relationship. The reasons are outlined in you handbooks, though the short answer would be "security concerns"

Casual form of relationship is something that I was nut about! It's like a better way of hooking up without making you feel like a whore. OOPS, ha ha ha .. Oh yeah, many of girls in my school craving for that form of relationship. Are you single and looking for desperately gooey and romantic short relationship? then you'll find many girls want it. P.s if you were looking in my school, most of them are beautiful. ha ha .. okay, moving on ... 

this casual form of relationship doesnt involve critical feelings into it. Well, most of the couples werent completely honest from each other and have many lies that were untold. You will go " whaat? is that even for real? who would live in pile of lies?" in the matter of fact, we human do live in big pile of utter bullshits and completely fine for it. it's like we are foolish, but foolishly happy with the condition. you feel me now? sometime, the couples wouldnt mention it as lies, it's just unspeakable truth. seriously? people these days like to pretend to be tough, but that's just wrong. i mean, we were born to be socialite to be able to communicate in many ways, to be able to tell others about how our conditions actually are. but most of us turned to be sociaLie, refuse to be real for the sake of others (<-- totally sick). okay, moving on .. 

the people from casual relationship prefer to call whatever they are doing as modern form of connection. Some of them are very realistic and some of them are really shallow when it comes to "love".

yeah, i am talking about love .. so sue me. well, dont sue me, because you know somewhere you too were spreading the word of that to many random guys who turned out to be " ugh, he was my friend in junior highscool, but we never talk anymore". The idea of love is actually very complicated, unrealistic, and abstract. People tend to think the act of love is totally ridiculous and out of common sense. well, lemme say that ... love made us creative, many movies, books, songs, paintings, etc are ridiculous and out of common sense but it made other people smile. 

okay, back to the relationship .. people who called it "casual" avoid love. Maybe because the fear of getting hurt or disappointed or stuff. But listen to me on this, maybe you got a cut from a knife, it leaved you a scar ... a scar to learn to be careful to use knife but not to avoid it. Because we do need knife to cut something. until maybe light-sabers are real, and we could cut anything with it .. but be more careful with light-sabers, those could chop off your hand. he-he-he

Last thing im going to say is about how casual relationship is a relationship with no direction at all. what is a purpose of it? It's never meant for a marriage, or something else. it just goes on. Some people might think about how the wind will blow them somewhere safe, but ... that's not how you do this in life. i mean, you guys are educated and stuff, how could you throw on you feelings and others feeling in the name of universe to let it flow? You knew you could take control of it, but you didnt take any control because it was too hard to define the relationship itself. 

I know i am totally old fashion, but i learned it on the hard way thou. few hours ago my buddy from Junior High School asked me the definition of Casual Form of Relationship, that made me want to write something.

oh, and for me. Have I been into a casual form of relationship? yes, done that, been there. wasnt very successful, and it got me thinking i wasted my time. well, i didnt waste anything, i got to write this and learn something.