#redtail-lol

Extra special shoutout to sex favorable aces who fall on the "no" part of "little to no sexual attraction" who feel forgotten about when people say "asexuality doesn't mean no sex, it's a spectrum! [immediately brings up demisexuals and gray aces and never mentions us.]" Attraction is not the only valid motivation for asexuals to have sex. And also shoutout gray aces and demisexuals who have sexual partners they are not attracted to!

Extra special shoutout to aromantic sex favorable aces who are tired of hearing that people do it "for their partner" or for romantic reasons, without bringing up that it's not the only reason. Extra special shoutout to aromantic sex favorable aces who are doubly treated as manipulative or "using" their sex partners. Extra special shoutout to aromantic sex favorable aces who feel like an afterthought.

Extra special shoutout to asensual and anaesthetic sex favorable aces who genuinely feel nothing at all towards their partners' physical appearances.

Extra special aplatonic, aqueerplatonic, analterous, and all other atertiary sex favorable aces.

[Image description: A tweet, edited erasure-poetry style to read, "IMO, 'erasure poetry' is poetry / destroy someone / else's writing- / and then call the leftover words a new 'poem' / Fight me."]

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"erasure poetry" is poetry

And then my hearttype is from a semi obscure webseries that has like NO fandom presence aside from like 12 people because the target audience and vast majority of viewers are not part of fandom culture. I'll probably never meet a double or anyone with the same source material oof. Being Stroudshearted can't be all fun and games and moon explosions I suppose

Ykw I'm just gonna post the screenshots

Yeah it was over a year ago idc I still get mad about ts sometimes.

This is multigenderphobia.

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Dear Redtail-lol,

Polly obviously!

Athena keeps running away and making me run laps around town.

found u bc u reblogged my infracis post. thanks btw

We coined varsex as a more ample term alternative to parsex. This blog was called parsex-pride and there we coined varsex.

We never explained it too much, here's the coining post. It's an umbrella term for people who are intersex, transsex, altersex, not infrasex, not cissex, not protosex, not dyadic/not perisex/not endosex, and beyond.

There was already a phrase term for it: sex variant (with synonyms: sex nonconformist, sex nonconforming). Variant is a concept that was amplified by @/variant-archive.

It also alludes to variations, which is a replacement for "conditions" (which alludes to disorders), as a way of depathologizing language (nothing wrong with considering your own variation a disorder or a condition, it's an opt-in label).

Parsex, in the other hand, was too restricted to altersex and/or intersex. Though varsex is basically the same, it can be used beyond these two experiences (eg. enbysex, sexqueer, perintersex, condisex) or as a blanket term as well.

Sorry if I confused your term, because maybe I thought it meant infrasex + cis*, or another ample form of infra-. tell us if you want us to delete it.

The term is used outside this blog:

!!!! YES OF COURSE HERE i got it from here (via google images)