All-my-possessions says the copyright registration for Begin Again is 2011. You actually seem interested in the truth (unlike some other blogs!) so that’s why I raise the issue.
ok so it looks like begin again was probably written in fall 2011 which still tracks for it to be about dianna since they likely met sometime through cory or chord in 2010 and were at the very least acquaintances. they seem to actually become friends in fall 2011.
this is all documented in my timeline here - @swiftgronmasterpost
tho i do believe achele continued on and off throughout feb 2012 and swiftgron wasn’t officially together until march 2012 i think it’s entirely possibly taylor got a big ole lesbian crush on dianna after hanging out with her in fall 2011. maybe it’s about someone else but i can very easily make a case for it being about dianna and i’ve been parsing over this analysis in my head for a couple days (hence me waiting on posting these)
begin again seems to have some references you could easily attribute to dianna. also what’s funny is none of the “official red love interests” (harry and conor) are around at all during this point in time (and neither are the “official breakup boys” jake g and john mayer)
what’s funny is even though the copyright was established in 2011 the hets seem to be fine with ascribing it to conor like...do they even care about reality? conor would have been freshly 17 and i think a junior in high school when she wrote this that’s honestly DISGUSTING and harry was 17 at the time too. i think it’s safe to say it’s not about either of them.
there are a few lyrics that can even be publicly ascribed to dianna it seems to me!
“And you throw your head back laughing like a little kid”
when they met at Fairfax flea market there was a lot of laughter pictured
and dianna’s actually a bit famous for her distinctive laugh
“I think it's strange that you think I'm funny 'cause he never did”
we know dianna thought taylor was funny:
“I've been spending the last eight months thinking all love ever does”
lately, @adastrabella and @swiftiesleuth have been making me think there was something legit about jake g and taylor... probably not what the media painted it out to be but perhaps they had something (they seemed to be spotted in organic and private moments and liz huett seemed to be jealous of him and ofc we’re open to bilor theories here)
if that’s the case then fall 2011 is exactly when she met dianna and 8 months after she publicly ended it with jake.
if this is the case it’s possible that “He didn't like it when I wore high heels, but I do” is accurately ascribed to jake as the “he” because jake is a dude who is 5′11″
taylor being a woman at 5′10″ would have towered over jake in heels.
dianna is short compared to tayor at about 5′5″ which is a very average height for an american woman and wouldn’t have cared if taylor wore heels or not. girls in wlw relationships aren’t typically insecure about that stuff.
so the 8 months line added to the heels line seems to suggest that there was something more than pr (tho i still think it was heavily pr, relationships can be both) to jake and taylor.
“You said you never met one girl who
Had as many James Taylor records as you, but I do”
dianna is a bit famous for being, shall we say, a pretentious art gay. i promise you she would have gushed with taylor over record players and vinyls as well as artists like james tayor.
here’s dianna talking about records and such:
and we know dianna went and saw Taylor preform with james taylor at tanglewood in the summer of 2012!
“We tell stories and you don't know why
I'm coming off a little shy, but I do”
this doesn’t tie back to dianna specifically (although who wouldn’t be shy around her god) but it’s very sapphic. that nervousness that goes along with meeting a girl you may like is communicated sweetly here. not only do you have to wonder “does she like me back” but also “is she gay too?”
But you start to talk about the movies
That your family watches
Every single Christmas and I won't
dianna is Jewish but has been observed casually celebrating christmas and the holiday season in general.
so while she’s probably not at midnight mass or having an extremely spiritual christmas tradition having an annual movie watching fest at christmas seems to be a way she may mark the holiday.
furthermore, it’s actually on record that dianna seems to celebrate the christmas season sometimes by watching love actually, which is one of taylor’s favorite movies!
also dianna is ofc going to discuss movies with new friends and crushes since she’s an actress and a huge cinema head. i would say her top four interests are film, music, photography, and dance and i think og dianna fans would agree with me.
so as far as the content of the song goes it’s pretty obvious you can make a strong case for begin again being about taylor’s first couple of meetings with dianna and her developing crush and their early friendship spent discussing music, movies, and other shared interests.
as far as the timeline goes i think it makes a lot of sense to be about dianna as well since it’s a song about the very beginning of falling for someone (but not confirming you’re in an official relationship with them yet)Â
update from 2022- this song is about will anderson