Hi anon here and i'm also still kinda new. I've mostly been lurking here but i've got a question that i hope you don't mind asnwering. How does toe and tily correlate to one another? you've talked about how both of those relationships are real and i'm curious as to how both timeline match with one another/
welcome, i'm so glad you've found my weird happy little corner of the internet!
taylor was casually seeing both of them for a couple years and dropped lily in late 2018/early 2019 and got more committed to joe. open relationships and non-monogamy is incredibly common in this day and age, particularly in hollywood. listen to my shawn episodes on the main pod if you haven't to learn more about the hijinks hollywood folks get up to.
if the tea i heard on tily is misinformed and the dozens of awesome tily connections in taylor's art are all coincidences. i don't want this to be true... nor do i really think it's true i genuinely do believe tily happened BUT it's completely possible it didn't and there's nothing wrong with saying that ab a celeb conspiracy theory/ship even if it's one you love like i love tily!
the third option seems a little out there but it is possible that joe who is a PERFECT match for lily with his blond hair, blue eyes, dimples, hailing from london, and of course accent just like lily has was brought in to be a cover for lily and taylor ended up falling for him. though it sounds like a crazy fanfic plot some of her music suggests it is at least possible that this happened.
"i hate accidents except for when we went from friends to this", "and it's fine to fake it til you make it, til you do, til it's true"
there are a lot more examples tbh we covered in a two-part beards to lovers series on the patreon linked here and here. andy, who is the LA insider friend i have that spilled the tily tea to me is on those two episodes with me so it's really worth a listen if you're into tily!
like i said glad you've come and found me! hit me with questions any time 🥰