#questioning aspec

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I know everything can feel overwhelming.

Don’t feel bad if you end up discovering you are or aren’t aspec. There’s nothing wrong with deciding a label isn’t for you after all, either way you’re not wasting anyone’s time.

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as in. the demisexuals, the greysexuals, those who are questioning asexuality or those who identify as it but still feel unsure anyways. those who are sex positive or sex neutral. those who are sex-repulsed, or those who worry that they think they're not really ace, maybe just allo and sex-repulsed. those who think they'll grow out of it, and those who worry if they'll still identify as asexual later. those who experience intrusive thoughts, those who have other factors play into their identity, those who end up worrying about it because of these factors.

Edit: Ya'll, I knew it! ^^. I'm gonna have so much fun rubbing these results in my buddy's face-

I think I might be cupioromantic. It feels like every crush I’ve had had just been hyper focusing on a person or not being able to say no when they confess. I really really want a relationship, I want the perfect storybook romance, some guy to love me and be the Nick to my Charlie. But I don’t think that can ever happen. I’ve been looking at TikToks from cupioromantic people and their expirences and a lot of them hit very close to home. Many aspec themes in song lyrics are a little too relateable. And something about it just feels right.

There is one small problem. I’m fairly young (not gonna specify but I’m a minor) and I don’t know if that impacts it. Maybe I’m not aro and just a confused teen. I know there are some people who make it through their teens without crushes and fall in love later in life. Maybe that’s me? Besides nobody would take me seriously if I came out as aspec/cupioromantic. They’d just think I’m a weird hopeless romantic.

Of course I’ve heard of people my age who identify as aroace, and all I want is to talk to someone like that. I don’t know anyone tho.