There’s a strange phenomenon of radfems and terfs trying to endear themselves to queer cis men by claiming that trans men are just women who fetishize us (which aside from being wrong is also a really weird claim for a group of people who will claim women are incapable of abusing or raping men) and that trans women are trying to make gay men transition, which like, definitely no basis for that and frankly I think trans women tend be more chill about any of our gender non conformity than most cis people are.
But also I can guarantee that radfems and terfs have done more to hurt queer cis men than any collective of trans people have. Like aside from the shit they’ve done to male abuse and rape victims as a whole, they also will gladly pin all rapes that happen to men on gay and bi men (despite stats showing that most male rape victims were raped by women) and are frequently either homophobic or fetishistic towards us, sometimes both. Radfems are a much bigger threat to queer men than whatever non existent trans ideology they prattle on about.
And again, unlike radical feminists who do share (frankly bigotted and awful) ideas, trans people are just that, people. People who definitely hold no systemic power over me and other queer people, and also people who share no inherit ideologies. So why would I fear them or hate them on principle, when they are as diverse in thought and feelings as any cis person? Why should I fear and hate my friends, my loved ones, my community, for mere existence, while finding comradery in a group of people whose ideology hates my sex and gender on principle, and have caused actual systemic harm to me and my loved ones, cis and trans?
Fuck terfs, fuck radfems, and fuck any queer cis man, or queer person in general, who had fallen for their shit.