#its funny bc clara is my fav but i dont relate to her at all#(except her fashion sense ayooo)#i relate to rory tho#and amy at some points#but like#here's the thing#u dont have to relate to characters to find their stories meaningful/interesting/whatever#U DONT!!#AT ALL!!#i can enjoy a character like abed who is very like me#but i can also enjoy a character like river who is not like me at all#shocking!!!#all this 'wah moffat sucks bc u cant relate to his characters' is just ppl trying to justify their dislike#AND YOU KNOW WHAT U DONT HAVE TO DO THAT#its ok if u dont like his characters!!!#totally fine man!!#sometimes a character just doesnt work for you and thats ok#you dont have to make up bullshit reasons why they're The Worst Ever And No One Could/Should Ever Like them#there's a lot about the rtd era i dont particularly like and its just bc its not really my taste#but i can see that its really important to some people#bc i am capable of basic empathy#and can understand that people are different#anyway geez sorry im ranting#the whole relatability thing is dumb and im real tired of it#doctor who#fandom wankĀ (tags via @queenhawke)Ā
all this is true, and i wasnāt unhappy to find these tags on my post. you shouldnāt have to personally identify with characters to find their stories meaningful. i even agree that you shouldnāt necessarily have to justify your dislike of a character -- in a perfect world, anyway. in reality, we all bring our biases to the things we consume, and weāre not aware of the prejudices that drive our dislike, you know? but in a better fandom, the relatability of fiction would probably not be the measuring stick used to validate it.
but then i look at the doctor who fandom, where so much of generally accepted moffat critique is āremember when the show was good? remember when the companions werenāt ~special~? remember when companions were JUST LIKE US? THESE characters arenāt real.ā and i think that it NEEDS to be said that a lot of us identify closely with them, and statements like that alienate actual, real-life people.Ā
for instance, i relate really hard to clara's fear and her struggle for control. and then iām told that it shouldnāt be possible for me to even see that in clara, because she's flat and uninteresting, and everything that shows her displaying those traits is another instance of moffat being terrible at writing female characters.
in this fandom, the āmoffat sucks at writing womenā criticism tends to run that his female characters are āāāspecialāāā ā therefore his characters areĀ ānot normalā ā thereforeĀ ānormal peopleā in real life cannot relate to them ā therefore they are bad. but long before you get toĀ ācannot relateā=ābadā you get the implication of a norm. but wait! normality is a construct. what you consider to be ordinary is not what other people consider to be ordinary. saying characters have to beĀ ānormalā implies that there is a real-lifeĀ ānormal,ā and anyone who doesnāt fit into that is silenced.
this is worst for fans of amy, who frequently relate to her childhood of neglect and her abandonment issues, to her mental illness, to how she felt out of place in her world, to how everyone told her she was lying or making things up or cr*zy. for me, this is not a case of relatability, but of empathy -- i havenātĀ experienced what amy has, but iāve talked about her arc a ton with nativehueofresolution. amyās issues make her and real-life people feel alienated.Ā the potential power of fandom to create empathy is enormous; instead, amy fans get shunted right out of the doctor who fandom because of their love for her.
aka, because they arenāt the kind of fan who hates moffat and everything he stands for because, duh, he can't write women like rtd used to.Ā
(iām not even saying anything about what rtd wrote or what i think of it. i am literally JUST saying that i have found stuff in moffatās era that speaks to me, and so have other people, and weāre valid.)
statements that moffatās characters are notĀ ānormal peopleā and therefore unrelatable assume ONE PERSPECTIVE that real-life people MUST fit into. which is so so SO othering to people who donāt feelĀ ānormal,ā who have been MADE to feel abnormal. those people are here. they are here. they are here.
i don't know, this relatability principle as a measure of how Good a piece of fiction is... it's flawed. but i guess what iām saying is that, where that kind of measurement is present already, the voices that speak up and sayĀ āwe DO relate to thisā are IMPORTANT, especially when they speak up about marginalized experiences. basically, under the pretense of just wanting ānormal peopleā as characters on the show again,Ā the doctor who fandomās approach to the moffat era is sloppy, demeaning, and harmful to real people. that is all.