Compersion isn't some impossible to achieve nirvana, only achievable by the greatest masters of polyamory.

You can find it hard to know your partner is having fun with someone else while, at the same time, feeling happiness and joy that they are experiencing something wonderful.

It's important in polyamory to recognise that you and your partner(s) are separate people. Your feelings for them don't have to mirror your feelings for yourself.

You can be happy seeing them happy while still feeling insecure or envious about your situation. Because in a healthy relationship, you will be able to communicate this to them so they can take steps to help you through your insecurities. 

If there is one standout benefit polyamory has brought into my life, it's a brand new level of open communication.

Communication is vital in successful ethical non-monogamy. But once you embrace it, you will realise how much strengthening your communication muscles benefits every aspect of our lives.

Communication is one of the most important parts of life. But it's also something a lot of us take for granted.

But successful polyamory forces us to actively work on our communication skills. And once you know how to better communicate with other people and yourself, life gets significantly easier to navigate.

The decision to begin your journey into polyamory is a big one. Sometimes it involves going slowly, and at other times throwing yourself in headfirst. But one thing I know for sure is that when you know, you know for sure. For some of us, polyamory just makes sense. 

But sometimes, when you're certain about something, it can be difficult to see that other people don't feel the same way. 

When it comes to Polyamory Red Flags, something that's important to recognise is when you're dating someone who, for whatever reason, simply isn't willing or able to continue on this journey with you.

I am Polyamorous Heathen. The Demon King of this chaotic, loving, gremlin-infested kingdom on FB where we have 60k followers. Your resident relationship anarchist, polyam educator, streamer, and meme sorcerer who somehow mixes wholesome support with unhinged feral energy. I talk about love, autonomy, boundaries, mental health, kink, and why ownership has no place in relationships.

I create TikToks, Reels, and Shorts that blend humor, education, polyam hot takes, and a little bit of chaos. Sometimes you get a lesson on consent, sometimes you get me bullying mononormativity, and sometimes you get a thirst trap that derails your entire day. Balance.

I also game. A lot. RPGs, story driven adventures, chaotic shooters, and anything that lets me embrace my inner villain or hero. I stream just chatting chaos, dumb jokes, heartfelt conversations, and the occasional existential crisis while getting my ass kicked in whatever I am playing.

I built a community that thrives on honesty, humor, and freedom. A place where we talk real, love loud, uplift each other, and shut down TRASH behavior instantly. If you want connection without chains, education with spice, or memes that hit a little too close to home, you are in the right place.

If you love: • Polyamory that is ethical, nuanced, and fully explained • Body positivity and kink education • Nerd culture, anime, and gaming chaos • TikToks, Reels, Shorts, and stream clips that make you laugh or think • A community that actually gives a damn