Jan 2, 2023
Compersion isn't some impossible to achieve nirvana, only achievable by the greatest masters of polyamory.
You can find it hard to know your partner is having fun with someone else while, at the same time, feeling happiness and joy that they are experiencing something wonderful.
It's important in polyamory to recognise that you and your partner(s) are separate people. Your feelings for them don't have to mirror your feelings for yourself.
You can be happy seeing them happy while still feeling insecure or envious about your situation. Because in a healthy relationship, you will be able to communicate this to them so they can take steps to help you through your insecurities.
(Discover more at DiscoveringPolyamory.com)
