and now for the people in the back:
NARCISSISTIC ABUSE DOESN'T EXIST!
WHAT YOU MEAN TO SAY IS EMOTIONAL ABUSE!
STOP DEMONIZING AN ENTIRE GROUP OF PEOPLE (thats a TON of ppl btw) WHO HAVE NO FAULT OF THEIR OWN IN DEVELOPING A DISORDER CAUSED BY ABUSE AND TRAUMA IN AND OF ITSELF!
YOU ARE ONLY DOWNPLAYING AND DISMISSING EMOTIONAL ABUSE, WHEN ITS JUST AS TRAUMATIZING AS ANYTHING ELSE!
if you use 'narcissistic abuse' as a legitimate category then you also have to acknowledge 'autistic-' or 'depressive abuse'! you cant use one but then discard everything else because suddenly "that doesnt exist"!
you want to be the good guys? then maybe stop demonizing people who also just have a disorder. im not excusing harmful behaviour or trauma, we all make mistakes, even egotypicals. what i want is for you to stop grouping in every bad experience or interaction with us! WE ARE NOT MONSTERS!
try to understand, not demonize. mocking, triggering, shaming and putting down narcissists for their symptoms or disorder is ableist and abusive and will never move anyone to get better!
