So, I have a fairly self-indulgent headcanon about how Ilya and Svetlana first met.
They met at a rink in Moscow when they were eight. Ilya was practicing shots after his hockey practice had ended. A girl his own age with Afro puffs, a leotard and figure skates came up to him and started giving him a detailed breakdown of everything he was doing wrong. It was impressive how much she knew!
Then some older boys heard a girl lecturing Little!Ilya about hockey and skated over to bully him for it. This girl knew a hell of a lot more about hockey than these big boys did, so Ilya stuck up for her. Being Ilya, even at eight, he said something smart mouthed to the big kids.
They took offence and decided to pound the little shrimp. But before they could beat him up, Svetlana grabbed Ilyaās hockey stick and hit the biggest bully in the face with it. She broke his nose.
Then she gave Ilya her hand and told him sheād help him run away from the bullies. They hid in the girls change room until their respective moms tracked them down there. The hiding place was Svetaās idea. After their next practice at the same time, Ilya convinced Irina to let him to go to the nearest playground with Svetlana. It was the beginning of a lifelong friendship between two little hellions.
Grigori was at first annoyed that Irina had let Ilya become friends with a girl, and a mixed race girl at that. Then he found out she was Sergei Vetrovās daughter. Instantly starstruck! Grigori used his sonās friendship with Svetlana to become friends with Sergei. So Ilya and Svetlana got to spend more time together. At some point they swore a blood oath to be friends forever.
After Irina killed herself when they were twelve, Svetlana convinced her parents to let Ilya sleep over at their apartment. Since the Rozanov apartment still had the mortuary coming to pick up the body. Ilya was still in shock, and neither Grigori nor Alexei was in any shape to look after him.
So she didnāt have to convince her parents too badly. They felt bad for the poor kid, so they let him sleep over in her room. Svetlana was the only person Ilya ever told until he was 26 what had really happened to his mom. She hugged him the whole night while he cried. She promised she would always be his best friend, and she kept that promise.
Another headcanon of mine is that Little!Svetlana desperately wanted to play girls hockey. But her dad made her do figure skating instead. We know nothing against Sergei Vetrov EXCEPT that heās a close friend of Grigori Rozanovās. Given how sexist and homophobic Grigori is, maybe Sergei has similar views.
There have always been lots of lesbians in girls and womenās hockey. Maybe Sergei was worried his little girl would be corrupted by them. Or maybe he let her play for a few years. And then she broke her nose or something else potentially disfiguring, and he made her switch to figure skating. Canāt have her ruining that pretty face, or sheāll never get a husband when she grows up.
Svetlana critiques Ilyaās play when theyāre 8 because sheād love to play herself, but sheās not allowed. Maybe their friendship deepens when she tells Ilya that. This little brother with no sisters realizes itās not just his mom who gets treated unfairly, itās other girls too. Ilya lends her his own hockey gear and sneaks her onto the ice in it as often as he can.
Irina looks the other way, as long as the kids give her some plausible deniability. I.e. So Grigori doesnāt blame HER for undemining Sergei as a father. She likes Svetlana, and encourages the friendship. Although post-suicide, I suspect Svetlanaās memories of Irina are more complicated than Ilyaās. Irina wasnāt her mom, after all, so she doesnāt need to idealize her memory. And Svetlana can see how Irinaās suicide left her bestie with gaping emotional wounds.
Another possible point in favour of Sergei Vetrov being a shitty dad is that Svetlana moved seven time zones away from her family as soon as she was a legal adult. Yes, she goes back to Moscow for visits, but she doesnāt live there. She moved to Boston solely because her bestie had been drafted by Boston and she had an American passport.
And then she made a whole new life for herself there, stayed in Boston even after Ilya left. Itās safe to say sheās probably not TOO close to her parents. So my guess is Sergei might have blighted her childhood dream of playing hockey, and Mrs Vetrova didnāt fight him on it as much as her daughter wanted her to. Yeah, Svetlana could play in a rec league after moving to Boston, but if she only started playing at 18 or 19, sheād never be able to play competitively.
Iām also assuming Svetlana was born during her dadās NHL career, hence the American passport. She was presumably born 1991, same year as Ilya. Prior to Gorbachev in 1985, it was virtually impossible for Soviet citizens to go to the West unless they defected. But perestroika changed that.
Sergei was a famous goalie for the Soviet Union. Maybe in the late 1980s he seized the opportunity to make big western money in America before his career ended. The Soviet Union was a disaster at the time, economically. Major shortages of food and consumer goods, political instability, etc.
As an elite athlete, Sergei wouldāve been far more privileged than the average person, but by the mid to late eighties, the whole system was breaking down. Even privileged people like Olympians and cosmonauts were feeling the pinch. Sergei moved to the USA with his family, and his wife had a baby girl in 1991. When his career ended, they moved back to Russia, but Svetlana still had two passports.
Iām also assuming Svetlanaās mother was probably Cuban or African originally. Back in the Soviet days, it was common for the children of Communist Party elites in developing countries to study at Soviet universities. It was one of the cheaper ways the USSR rewarded Communists in developing countries, by giving their kids opportunities they wouldnāt have at home. A pretty Cuban or African student met a handsome goalie. Svetlana might have older siblings, we just donāt meet them in canon.
Itās also possible that Sergei moved to the USA to play and married a black American woman there. But itās clear Svetlana and Ilya spent most of their childhoods together in Moscow. And Russia in the 1990s was a fucking disaster. Itās hard to believe that the Vetrov family wouldāve gone back to Moscow and stayed there if Mrs Vetrova had US citizenship. She could have sponsored her husband and they couldāve raised their kids somewhere less turbulent than post-Soviet Russia.
Now, clearly Sergei, like Grigori Rozanov, was a survivor who adapted to the fall of Communism in 1991 and ended up thriving in its wreckage. Heās prosperous, and is apparently as of 2014 the Minister for Sport in Putinās cabinet. Possibly he got axed from that job after the Sochi Olympics. After the embarrassment of the menās hockey team crashing out to a former colony.
But I suspect Sergei could have thrived in the USA as well, if heād had a clear path to citizenship through an American wife. The USA is a chaotic place, but Russia in the nineties wouldāve been even more so.
So those are my headcanons about Svetlana and Ilyaās childhood together.