Domestic/established pairing questions, with nuance :3 tried to use language to include polyam situations! Do as a questionnaire or an ask game or whatever, really, I'm not the boss of you
Do they have petnames/nicknames for each other? Is there a reason why not, or a reason they picked what they did?
Who cooks? What's their favorite thing to cook?
Is there something one of them is quite bad at cooking? Do they get better?
Are they ok with PDA? What counts as public to them? Are there levels?
What level of pain/sickness are they comfortable showing each other? Is there anything they hide?
Are they the marrying types? Or something else?
If they lived together, whose name(s) goes on the lease/mortgage?
Is there any early bird/night owl split? How do they deal with it, if so?
Do they have hobbies that take up a lot of space? Is this ever a problem, if so?
Who slams the oven, and who plays the trombone? ( https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/when-mama-isnt-home ) Is it a trombone, or a different instrument?
Who can keep plants alive? If nobody, who has the best rate of success?
Are they in agreement over shoes off or shoes on inside?
Do they stick to fairly fixed roles in their relationship, or is it flexible?
Who would take up more of the closet? What do they have the most of?
Are they particular about where to/not to have sex, like nothing on food prep surfaces, only in bed, nothing outdoors? If so, what are the rules? Are they in agreement about said rules? :3
Are sex toys something casual, or reserved for special occasions, or not used at all?
How about roleplay? Casual, or something that would be meticulously planned out? Can they stay serious during it?
Do they change the sheets after sex, or just avoid the wet spot?
How pressed do they get if the other doesn't orgasm during sex? Is it personal?
Would they be bothered by a pet walking into the room?
Are they comfortable being intimate if a housemate was at home? If so, do they try to be quieter?
Are their sex drives pretty well aligned, or different? How do they handle it?
Is the relationship open to other partners? If so, what are the rules around it? How would a conversation around opening it go?
If applicable, is contraception something they think about?
Are marks/bites something they'll let be done to them? Do they cover them or have rules about where they can be done?
How long did they wait after getting together to have sex?
Any uncommon kinks/fetishes? Would they bring it up, and how so?
The only hotel they can get accommodations at is a sexy themed one – how do they feel about it? What room theme are they picking?
I'm open to asks for these if anyone is so inclined! Canon/canon, oc/canon, oc /oc (and polyam of any) is all on the table
