I love love love the Dreemurrs and sunk cost fallacy. Their nostalgia. Their distaste of change. Hometown and its perfect idyllic little white picket fence lifestyle that it wants to project so bad without ever truly having. The idea of being "normal".
Kris who is wrapped up with Carol likely trying to bring Dess back. Dess, whose disappearance marks all the big change, when things stopped being "normal." If Kris can go with the flow, give up their body and SOUL so things can be better. Because Dess was better.
Asgore who became so obsessed with this idea of this ideal life that he drove away his family trying to prove himself as the protector. Who neglected his children and pressured his wife to get things back to "normal". He only considers that he might not actually be helping his kids when he sees Kris beat up by Flowery. He only considers that Toriel might not like his actions because Flowery does similar things to him.
Which I suppose, speaking of Flowery... The way he deviates from the nostalgia by hating the past. He is of the opinion that Asgore would be happier if he abandoned his family to live in this Dark World today. Speaking of moving on to a better future, when he really aims to keep Asgore in stagnancy. Learn nothing from the past, just move on and live for yourself! But that doesn't work because all this has already been selfish. Asgore got here because he wanted to prove himself for the sake of himself! He talks about parading the body of whoever created this fountain around town, not as an act of keeping everyone safe, but to prove he was right. And Flowery, in following in these footsteps of centering everything around Asgore, sets everyone up for tragedy; even if the fountain remained, him and the other flowers would die, setting Asgore up to lose yet another family. How does that help anyone? It doesn't, but that dream of a family for however long keeps him going regardless. His own idea of "normal."
Even Tenna, who wants to go back to the good old days so bad. Scarred by all the fighting and family changes by The Incident and subsequent divorce. In his helplessness as a TV he desperately hopes for some sort of control, some sort of way to help. If he had been better, the family wouldn't have fallen apart, right?
We haven't met Asriel in Deltarune yet, but we did know him as Flowey. I love all the depictions of Asriel in Deltarune where he gets to be messy like everyone else. That comic where he expresses concern to Kris for "getting in with the wrong crowd" because he heard the rumors about Susie. Basically all of @acaciapines stories with Asriel striving for being the golden boy and that normalcy, wanting Kris to just be human, for KnightDess to just be Dess. Because all he knows is that fitting in the mold is to be successful. Because he can't bear the idea of change because big change is when he lost his best friend and childhood crush.
Now, to be fair, what if Asriel takes after Toriel? Toriel is an outlier in actually trying to move forward. Remembering the past, both fondly and otherwise, acknowledging it but also focusing on the present. Being happy that Kris is friends with Susie even if that's "different". But I don't see that as Asriel-
- I see that kind of thought process more in Ralsei. Ralsei who asks that Kris and Susie enjoy the "real world". Who enjoys the present, and wants to hope for the future. They feel the nostalgia for good times of the past, but also doesn't let that take over their experience now.















