#negative talk

Sex is bad but being ace isn't normal either.

You shouldn't be ableist but if your mental/physical illness is deemed "worse" than someone else's, you're allowed to tell the other person off for complaining rightfully and respectfully about their problems.

Oh, and they're called mental and physical "illnesses" because they prevent you from ADAPTING to a society that is actually ill-functioning but refuses to adapt to you because YOU'RE the problem (babygirl, everyone is the problem).

You go see a therapist and get put under meds on behalf of the people who should be there instead of you.

You get so fed up with how your community is being treated that you tar everyone with the same brush and end up making enemies of people who used to support you.

More generally, you know what it's like to be treated unfairly but you do the same to someone else (terfs etc)

Fighting for a cause starts including stomping on another.

You start saying "Not all men" and yeah, thank goodness it's not ALL men, but it's men like you.

You become so obsessed with being right that you never consider the idea of being wrong anymore and stop fact-checking anything.

You start spending more time finding things to hate on and hurting people, including yourself, on the way, when you could be sharing things you love with people who understand you.

..with adhd I get so sick of things !! Like I can style it but in six months it will annoy me.