#gncphobia

You have to let the stud know that you don't see her as less of a woman. You have to let the transfem know you won't see her as a threat if she pauses in her performance for a moment. You have to let the transmasc know he won't be a threat in your eyes if he chooses black manhood. You have to let the black masc gay man that his presence is not a danger to everyone else, you have to let him know that he does not stick out, he is not unwelcome.

The term is organized as; Andro + queerphobia - to emphasize that this is a subset of queerphobia, not a subset of "misandry" which is a word that has been thoroughly poisoned by reactionary groups such as MRAs, incels, MGTOW, anti-SJWs, and others.

Definition: Bigotry against queer masculinity & queer manhood. Such as what is faced by butches, nonbinary people, transmasculine people & trans men, intersex men, and men/mascs who are gender nonconforming or otherwise genderqueer.

These are all forms of gender identity, expression, presentation & existence that are distinct from cisnormative patriarchal manhood, and posess proximity to femininity in some way, whether it be societally-imposed or from within. Because of this, queer masculinity & queer manhood is marginalized under patriarchy.

An unconfirmed character is not automatically allorose, monorose, straight, monogamous, with 0 prioritized nonrose (platonic/queerplatonic, alterous, sensual, etc) attraction.

An unconfirmed character is not automatically unaltered perisex, cisgender, binary, gender conforming, and pronoun conforming.

Unless the creator or character explicitly states that they are all of those things, then you literally cannot tell people "[insert character here] isn't queer!"

It's not inappropriate for a man to wear a dress to a business meeting. It's not inappropriate for a woman to wear a three-piece suit to a funeral. It's not inappropriate for someone to dress androgynous for an interview. Gender nonconformity is, for many people, just a part of expression. It's not just a performance or a fun weekend thing (although, again, that's good too)!

“egg culture” in general. ohhhhh that man isn’t acting how YOU think a man should act? so he’s actually a secret trans women?? and you’re gonna misgender him????

ohhhh so that woman doesnt adhere to patriarchal standards and doesn’t like misogyny? so she must be a trans man because “a real woman would like being oppressed she hates womanhood so she must not be one?” so we’re setting back feminism by 50 years because she isn’t acting like a “proper woman” so she must actually be a man?

get the fuck outta here with this bullshit oh my goddddddddddd

-a genderqueer dude

This is transphobia, exorsexism, GNCphobia, and varsexism.

"Isn't my gender obvious?"

1- Trans & gender diverse (TGD) people may not be interested in a medical transition, may be incapable of a medical transition, or may be pre-transition.

2- TGD people may have "unconventional" transition goals.

3- TGD and non-TGD people alike can be gender non-conforming (GNC) in presentation.

4- Even if every TGD person was gender conforming, society doesn't have "gender roles" for a lot of non-binary genders. What exactly does society expect an androgynous, neutral, null, genderless, xenine, outherine, aporine, mixed gender, or multigender person to look like? Or what does society expect fem enbies and masc enbies to look like in order to "differentiate" themselves from binary women and binary men? Society doesn't have any definitive answer, because of non-binary erasure.

5- Intersex and sex non-conforming people exist.

6- Pronouns =/= gender.