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here is your reminder that the shinigami eyes browser extension (used to mark pro-trans blogs as green and transphobic blogs as red) is not reliable at all. If you even dare to breath the words 'transandrophobia' or 'intersex' you get marked red. The extension has long been overrun by isuggestforcefem type trfs who mark you as red for suggesting that trans men experience oppression.
the wikipedia page for okra (yes, the food) is marked red. that should tell you how useless the extension is.
Anti-masculinity and Transandrophobia within Mogai.
Trigger warnings for discussion of the following: transandrophobia, terfism, racism, and bigotry under the cut.
Note: I, Calypso, have been out as a trans guy for 8+ years and have been the victim of transandrophobic aggression, including hate crimes and IRL longterm harassment. do not come onto this post and argue with me about the usage of 'transandrophobia'.
If sentences seem jumbled, this is because I struggle a lot with stringing together sentences that make sense or are grammatically correct. I apologize if parts of this are difficult to read due to this. Tagging @radiomogai for reach.
There is a large transandrophobia shaped elephant in Mogaiblr. I've noticed it, others have noticed it, you've probably noticed it, but nobody wants to talk about it. We all tiptoe around it instead.
With the rise in discussions about misogyny within mogaiblr, there have been folks who looked at the very much valid discussions that have been held and, instead of walking away with the thought of 'we should uplift, support, and cherish the women and girls within in our community', they walked away with the idea that trans men & masculinity in general are to blame for the misogyny in mogai.
It's no secret that there has been a very sharp, very dangerous increase of bigotry towards trans men&mascs (especially tmoc) on tumblr, we've seen it with large bloggers like isuggestforcefem, pocket-deer-belly, yay-bunnies, and others encouraging sexual harassment, cyber-stalking, abuse, and cruelty towards trans men, especially those of us whom they deem to be "transandrobros".
Hell, accusations of rape, nazism, racism, transmisogyny, and being a terf are routinely trotted out against the coiner of transandrophobia! Even though these allegations have been proven false about a dozen times over!
How does this tie into mogaiblr? Well, mogaiblr has an anti-masculinity issue - not just when it comes to men, but when it comes to women as well. Notice how few terms for masculine-aligned women there are compared to the abundance of terms for feminine-aligned women? How a lot of feminine-centered coiners seem to treat 'masculinity' as interchangeable with 'man'?
This anti-masculinity that is rampant in the mogai community is intertwined with racism, as well. Have you noticed how many Black coiners are automatically assumed to be masculine/man-aligned without any thought? How many asian coiners (especially coiners who are east asian and/or southeast asian) are denied the option of masculinity and instead automatically assumed (and pressured) to be feminine/woman-aligned?
I do not bring this up in an attempt to stir drama, I bring this up to try and combat transandrophobia within a community that I love with every inch of my heart and soul. Mogai is so important to me, it's deeply integrated into my daily life and thoughts, amd Mogai helps me cope with my chronic suicidalness and gender dysphoria. I want to help this community and the folks within be the best we can be.
Niwindcandleic : a gender connected to wooden windchimes, the soft sounds of rain on a roof, candles burning quietly, wind, spring, and being the only one awake late at night.
Tagging @radiomogai @goatgai. No flag as of April 9th 2026.
Unrequilovegender : a lovegender connected to specifically unrequited love; it may be connected to tropes of unrequited love, specific aesthetics, or just an overall connection to unrequited love.
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a neoumbrella connected to not deer and themes around them such as, unnatural deers & cervidae, cervidae presenting and doing atypical things such being cannibalistic, carnivorous, predator-like, uncanny valley, etc.
General terms
Transnilanaic : trans/transitioning term
NILAIN : nilanaic in nature
NILAINgender : in nature gender
Feidic : gender alignment
Fianinity/Fianine/Fian : masc/fem equivalent
Other terms
Cier : general person term
Fian : older, like man/woman
Elafi : younger, like boy/girl
Cierfriend/Elafriend : like boy/girl/joyfriend
Ciermate : partner term
etymology: nil - equivalent of no in irish | fi[an]n[a] - deer in irish | -ic
Neoumbrellafluid : a term for someone who's identity is fluid between multiple neoumbrellas, this may be over the course of hours, days, weeks, etc. This is not inherently a gender term, but one can use it as such.
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Blue Iris : an awareness flag for those who are survivors of educational neglect, be it by homeschooling/unschooling, the rampant ableism and racism in the public education system, or misogyny forcibly witholding one from schooling.
Tagging @radiomogai @goatgai @accessibilitea. Everyone has to be normal about victims of educational neglect on this post or give me $50 dollars.
Here's the thing about homeschooling that I think non-homeschooled kids don't and can't understand. You can have the best parents on the planet with the best intentions on the planet and homeschool will still seriously fuck you up. There is no way to do it ethically. I know because I basically had the best possible homeschooling experience.
My parents pulled me for the fourth grade, and I was homeschooled until the end of high school. Nine entire years. They pulled me from the public schools for a perfectly reasonable reason — my mental health was in the toilet and I needed to be away from other kids who might hurt me as they had spent all of my third grade year doing. My mom has a fucking PhD in neuroscience and tutors math professionally. She was, during the ten years that my siblings and I were homeschooled, the best, kindest, most caring, understanding, lovely teacher you could ask for.
But I'm still broken. That's the thing about homeschool. You can have the best experience possible in homeschool and still come out a fundamentally broken person. My social development stopped at the age of 10. I'm a 22 year old adult woman with the social skills of a 10 year old. That's not to say that that COULDN'T have happened in public school, but being homeschooled only made it more of a certainty. Both of my siblings and I have fewer coping strategies on average than our peers with similar neurodivergencies because we basically did not live in the real world for a decade during key developmental years.
Don't ban homeschooling because of the religious nuts. There are plenty of them. Hell, I KNEW plenty of them. But there are also plenty of quote unquote "good" homeschool families. Ones that do everything you would hope the model homeschool family does. And they are still hurting their children, even if unintentionally, because homeschooling is an inhrently traumatic experience. It's isolating. For seven entire years of my life, I had no friends. Not because I was a social outcast, but because I didn't even SEE anybody regularly enough. But, nonetheless, I knew people. You generally do if you get involved in the community.
Ban homeschooling because it breaks and utterly destroys everyone who goes through it.
Everyone.
I'm sorry, Lauren. I'm sorry, Kade. I'm sorry to the boy whose name I can no longer remember. I'm sorry that I survived and you didn't.
Homeschooling was probably the best possible way for me to get educated, given my particularly blend of neurodivergence: It still messed me up terribly bad, and I was one of the luckiest ones. For most kids it was far, far worse.
You all LOVE Japan and the words within their language, until you have to confront you only love japan when its stereotypical and watered down, "aesthetic." Anytime someone who's actually from the damn place or connected to the culture or ANYTHING speaks up about something being quite a bit weird you all run them off Tumblr in such a very non-racist way /sar. Not even just japanese people it goes for everyone who speaks up against things like this. Fuck you.
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Anti-masculinity and Transandrophobia within Mogai.
Trigger warnings for discussion of the following: transandrophobia, terfism, racism, and bigotry under the cut.
Note: I, Calypso, have been out as a trans guy for 8+ years and have been the victim of transandrophobic aggression, including hate crimes and IRL longterm harassment. do not come onto this post and argue with me about the usage of 'transandrophobia'.
If sentences seem jumbled, this is because I struggle a lot with stringing together sentences that make sense or are grammatically correct. I apologize if parts of this are difficult to read due to this. Tagging @radiomogai for reach.
There is a large transandrophobia shaped elephant in Mogaiblr. I've noticed it, others have noticed it, you've probably noticed it, but nobody wants to talk about it. We all tiptoe around it instead.
With the rise in discussions about misogyny within mogaiblr, there have been folks who looked at the very much valid discussions that have been held and, instead of walking away with the thought of 'we should uplift, support, and cherish the women and girls within in our community', they walked away with the idea that trans men & masculinity in general are to blame for the misogyny in mogai.
It's no secret that there has been a very sharp, very dangerous increase of bigotry towards trans men&mascs (especially tmoc) on tumblr, we've seen it with large bloggers like isuggestforcefem, pocket-deer-belly, yay-bunnies, and others encouraging sexual harassment, cyber-stalking, abuse, and cruelty towards trans men, especially those of us whom they deem to be "transandrobros".
Hell, accusations of rape, nazism, racism, transmisogyny, and being a terf are routinely trotted out against the coiner of transandrophobia! Even though these allegations have been proven false about a dozen times over!
How does this tie into mogaiblr? Well, mogaiblr has an anti-masculinity issue - not just when it comes to men, but when it comes to women as well. Notice how few terms for masculine-aligned women there are compared to the abundance of terms for feminine-aligned women? How a lot of feminine-centered coiners seem to treat 'masculinity' as interchangeable with 'man'?
This anti-masculinity that is rampant in the mogai community is intertwined with racism, as well. Have you noticed how many Black coiners are automatically assumed to be masculine/man-aligned without any thought? How many asian coiners (especially coiners who are east asian and/or southeast asian) are denied the option of masculinity and instead automatically assumed (and pressured) to be feminine/woman-aligned?
I do not bring this up in an attempt to stir drama, I bring this up to try and combat transandrophobia within a community that I love with every inch of my heart and soul. Mogai is so important to me, it's deeply integrated into my daily life and thoughts, amd Mogai helps me cope with my chronic suicidalness and gender dysphoria. I want to help this community and the folks within be the best we can be.
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