Eh, I wouldnât? Consider it bad personally because if you think about how, natal charts can be snapshots of the political climate of a certain time period - then I wouldnât consider it bad personally (and also because Saturn is a social planet? Itâs - not immensely personal but it can have a strong influence on the person and how they come up)Â
Generationally, it can indicate you being able to perceive how certain authorities (Saturn) may be opposing changes certain generations is trying to make. Making improvements against these mindset/goals hard to reconcile, because theyâre looking at opposite/coming from different environments/intents/wanting to preserve different things (Saturn opposition Pluto). You may be able to see both sides of the story, or you may learn on one side and refuse to the see the other (opposition) - what matters is that when these are in opposition to each other - both may feel strongly about what they stand for (Saturn and Pluto) and what theyâre losing as a consequence of moving one way or the other (i.e. progress vs conserve) which is where the core of the problem lies.Â
On a personal note, if you think consider Saturn to be an important influence on your life (which is the case for Saturn dominant people) - you may be very perceptive and adept at picking up when certain figures in your life do not have your best intention at heart, or if it opposes your view on certain things. This may often be perceived as them threatening your sense of stability/foundation in a way, this aspect could point to the individualâs search for their own meaningfulness and position in life through their own research/discovery. Thus, any opposition that comes your way may often be perceived with them being âagainstâ you. Watch for defensiveness or black/white thinking when you âfeelâ like others are âbringing you downâ - understanding that changes have to happen, and is constant in life, will also come with learning how to accept and be more open/willing to change outside of your own foundation/stability which could be helpful to you as well đ¤đđŚ Alright, I think thatâs it. đ¤đđŚÂ I hope this helps! đ¤đđŚÂ Â
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Can you describe venus square pluto in the natal chart? I heard it makes someone very possessive and fall for people thatâs not good for them(?) I feel like itâs the reason I have no luck with finding someone.đ
Hey there! đ Youâre plenty lovable đ You have your own charm and people do like you, itâs just a matter of understanding yourself thatâs going to help đÂ
[Below Cut: Natal Venus-Square-Pluto and How To Help ]
Venus-Square-Pluto
Everything in their chart can point to them being a âsoftâ person (with high moral integrity).Â
But when itâs put into a context that âactivatesâ Venus-Square-Pluto, they may find themselves discovering a deeper, darker (and more passionate) part of their psyche (Pluto) that empowers them to seek dominance or monopoly of their Venus-activated subjects sometimes.
Venus-Square-Pluto people might find themselves reacting instinctively-- often illogically and passionately devoted to someone/something.Â
Venus, as a planet of social relationship, romance, artistry and when creating friction with Pluto that embodies powerful discovery, transformation, passion and deeper psyche -- can often âtransformâ the person into wanting sovereignty over their relationship/reacting intensely to something/someone without consulting their other placements.
Thus, why it seems illogical. But at the same time they possess an almost self-sacrificial ability to give everything to their lovers. Their only compensation is trying to make sure that the other person does the same.Â
This leads them to âpromptâ the other--- âdemandâ something from them or sometimes be possessive/manipulative in order to âsecureâ the relationship.
They might find themselves repeating cycles/patterns with their lovers, because they truly want to understand, connect and âunravelâ the other person entirely. This is insatiable drive that they often does constantly, in order to see the âresultsâ they want-- that the other is just as equally passionate as they are.
*While it may seem âbadâ or detrimental itâs also a part that we have to understand in order to overcome/work through it better.
The thing with Venus-Square-Pluto (or the lesson they have to learn here) is that all the negative thoughts; all the whys and hows --- is a reflection of themselves that they are projecting onto others, which is whatâs causing the tension in the first place.
See, Venus is also about reflection. (Think 7H/DSC) You want your partner to be like you or âreflectâ the things you want to see. The lesson Venus bring is self-reflection, the Venus-Square-Pluto person has to realize their need to control the others/feed on the other so much is because they need to be just as thorough with themselves. Â
Romantic relationship gives them a âsubjectâ they can sink their teeth into. When really it shouldâve been themselves that they actually want to understand, discover and see all the uglies with.Â
In a way, thereâs a subconscious fear of seeing all their own uglies in Venus-Square-Pluto aspect. Which is why this control/possessiveness can be projected on the partner. And thus, the manipulation/cycles happen.
Love (Venus) and Power (Pluto) -- if you think about it as Venus-Pluto as is, itâs supposed to be talking about âLove of Powerâ right? And if add the âselfâ (instead of the âpartnerâ) -- it would be âLove the Empowerment of Selfâ instead.Â
Manipulation happens when they âLove the Empowerment they Have Over Othersâ (replacing the âselfâ with âothers). Look to see where it stems from, usually itâs a fear of their own self-worth or the self.Â
A way to help with this placement is to confront the cause of fear the Venus-Square-Pluto stem from. If itâs something like âI always get into terrible fights, because weâre possessive over each otherâ -- whatâs the main cause of that possessiveness? Surface stuff like lack of time, lack of interaction isnât cutting it.Â
Sink deeper into the reason, is it loneliness? Is it telling you youâre a lonely person at heart and with/without a partner? Maybe youâve always felt lonely by yourself-- so now that you have someone who fills it up, youâre unwilling to part with it so you donât go back again?
The cause of Venus-Square-Plutoâs tension is always from themselves. And itâs always something to do with their psyche. So try to discover your own psyche and itâll help you learn how to build a more equalized, stable and probably more fruitful relationship.
Also, realize that itâs all just a part of nature. Thereâs nothing to be ashamed of if you donât âfitâ/âsucceedâ at falling into what we consider to be a âhealthy/conventionalâ relationship instantly.Â
Understanding the psyche also means understanding/accepting/tolerating what you were feeling/doing honestly as well. Nature can be helped through nurture. Â
Thatâs all I have for Venus-Square-Pluto in the natal! đ I hope this helps đđđ Thank you for sending it in! đ