yeah so I’m about 80% sure I’m not bisexual
It honestly feels like a badly-fitting shoe at this point, and the times where I’m genuinely happy with the label are...not significant enough to rule out the self-loathing and discomfort I feel with being bisexual.
Not having a label for now is uncomfortable too, but it’s between that and feeling unhappy when I think of women and go “yeah I’d do a one-night stand but I’m not interested in women beyond that” and tbh I don’t know how I feel about men or other genders either.
Bisexuality is becoming confining, distressing, and an emotional drain. I need to take the time we all need to take a step back and reassess myself.
To my bisexual, pansexual, and other mspec followers - you’re wonderful, brave, and valid as fuck. Keep being awesome.
