#mod magi

You can try them on, see what fits. Maybe something fits for awhile, and then doesn't. Maybe sometimes it doesn't fit very well, and sometimes it's perfect. Maybe it fits, but it's not very comfortable.

You can wear multiple labels at a time, as many as you'd like. Maybe more than one or two becomes stifling, but maybe they make you feel cozy. Maybe you like one type of label better than another type.

The thing about labels and clothes is, they're not permanent. The novelty of a pretty new dress wears off, and now the hem is unraveling and the elastic pinches. Or you've had a shirt for a long time and loved it, but now your body has changed and it doesn't fit right anymore, plus it's wearing thin. Or maybe you're just bored of that sweater. And maybe once the novelty of calling yourself nonbinary wears off, you won't like that label. Or you've been calling yourself asexual for years and it just doesn't ring true now. It doesn't matter.

You don't keep clothes you don't wear. They just take up space in your closet. Don't keep labels you don't love. They just take up space in your brain.

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Yes!! Genderfluid people can and, to my knowledge, often do ID as nonbinary,. It's literally about whichever words you feel describe you best, and nonbinary means exactly that: not strictly one binary or the other. You might not feel nonbinary if you only switch between 'boy' and 'girl,' and that's okay. You don't have to ID as nonbinary.

Conversely, you might feel that the switching itself makes you nonbinary, even if you spend a large amount of time as a binary gender. That's valid too! Enby-ness is a spectrum, and there's no one right way to do it.

Hope this helps!

~ mod Magi

hello there! i’m mod Finch and also identify as nonbinary so hopefully i’ll be of a bit more help to you!

so i think a good thing to remember is that the term ‘nonbinary’ isn’t the “third gender” of the binary. It’s an umbrella term. Nonbinary: any gender identity that is outside of the binary. (Hence: Nonbinary)

when only feeling nonbinary a portion of the time, you 100% can still call yourself nonbinary.

if you are out of the binary in ANY shape or form, your immediate umbrella term is nonbinary. (Ex. Genderfluid, Bigender etc.)

also!!!!!!

——> you are not made for your labels!!! <——

your labels are made to HELP YOU.

if using the label nonbinary makes you happy (even if you don’t “feel” nonbinary 100% of the time) you can identify as nonbinary! (Or a more specific label under the nonbinary umbrella!)

i really hope this helps!! <3

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