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I DIDN'T KNOW THERE WAS ANOTHER TERTIARY CULTURE BLOG!!! YOU'RE SO COOL :D
ahp, thank you!! /gen
It's very fair you didn't know my blog existed though, saying it's both a niche concept and i've not really been active for a few years now lol
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tertiary attraction culture is not realizing you're aplatonic cus you have alterous attraction, and the alterous attraction looking kind of like a combination of romantic and platonic. "why don't i ever feel just platonic about people" well, cus you don't have it(or very little. still figuring that out)
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Tertiary-spec culture is taking a while to even realise your experiencing attraction
tertiaryspec culture is being utterly baffled at your own attraction when it happens
Greyalterous Greyromantic culture is idk if it's a crush or a squish and I always get the two confused.
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Tertiaryspec culture is collecting super niche labels for both myself and my OCs :)
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Q2, if you haven't answered already.
How would you describe your identity?
It gets a bit foggy for me since I view the labels more as "what i would do with someone" since I am omniaspec and mostly on the far "no attraction" for most(i think). I would say I am sort of gray aesthetic and maybe some form of emotional unspecified feelings but that are VERY specififc and yet to be named. Just curious what's your experience is like with your identity.
My first thought was to compare it to nebulæ, a spark of colour in the otherwise grey (an-attractional) world of space (tho space is from from pure black irl, but for the purposes of the metaphor).
It does to some degree depend on the type of attraction; Aesthetic feels not much more different then seeing a particulalry attractive painting to us or even the expirance of gender envy but without the desire to model an aspect of the person, vs platonic and... whatever attraction my headmates feel that sits inbetween romo & non-rose, is very... again it's a nebula. It almost feels like when you are particulaly hyperfocused or intrested in a topic but without the je ne sais quoi for lack of a better term that those have, instead it's almost like a slight pull towards the person a desire to have them in your life but without the thoughts completly consuming you, just perhaps leaving them a bit more of a frequent visitor to your thoughtspace then they might've been otherwise.
...idk if any of that makes sense lol, but yea to us it's a very specific but also extremely abstract feeling, similar to but still different to how we feel about our best friends or those we get gender envy from.
Tertiary Attraction Ask Game #5? (if its still going on)
5: Do you like to label your tertiary attraction?
We do not currently label any of our tertiary attractions as far as I know, but I don't think we would mind doing so either. Some of us really like labels or otherwise fitting infomantion about ourself together so I could see us going back to using them in the future in any case.
Though personally I, as an individual alter, am a big fan of using labels when I need to communicate an idea but not "identifing" with them 24/7 like people tend to assume most Queer folk do. So when introducing myself, even in queer spaces, I won't say i'm Bi-Aesthetic but if the conversation leads to it being relevent then I have no issues using the label either (they are fun ngl).
