I think one of my favourite parts about tertiary attraction (and really just queer labels in general) is that there's so many options and your allowed to pick and choose what ones you use to describe yourself.
Like two people could have very similar experiences, at least from an outside perspective, but they might both use different sets of labels for it based off any number of reasons (like different internal views of their attractions or just simply preferring one term over another for reasons like aesthetics/vibes) That for one person a type of tertiary attraction could be a subset of something else, but for another it's own whole thing that they like to have a label for.
I just think it's really cool how we can and do use language in such a diverse and personal way. How just because you experience smth doesn't mean you have to label it or even use one label that others do if you prefer something different.
