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Hey lovely,

I am so glad that Nate and Fay were able to help.  They are both amazing admins and I am sure whatever advice they gave you was the best.  Unforchunately neither of them are blog admins and cannot access this message, but I have passed it onto both of them.  I am so glad we were able to help.  Feel free to message us any time.  Best of wishes!!!!

Hi lovely :)

I’m so sorry that Fay wasn’t able to run it this week!She’s been incredibly busy, but it should hopefully be up and running againnext week!

In the meantime if you have any questions or want anyoneto talk to, feel free to send an ask into the blog, or speak to one of ourwonderful admins on live chat!We also have a list of helplines and web counsellorsyou are free to contact about anything!

I hope that everything is okay darling!

Keep fighting!

Take care and lots of love,

Hey Aurora!

Fay is currently away from the blog, so I showed them your message and they wanted to add a reply: "Hey, love. Thank you so much for sending this in, its awesome. I remember seeing your name in my venting group, its totally fine you had to leave. I do them every week so you can totally come back next week.This is super sweet, thank you so much for sending this in, it means a lot".

Thank you for sending this in, you're lovely :D- Adrienne

Missing cat anon

This is definitely a good idea. Cats love trying to get into places they don’t belong and sometimes they get stuck. 

Lots of love, 

Hi, love

For Kayeliegh

This is wonderful advice, love. I'm sure Kayeliegh will appreciate you sending this in, darling.

Lots of love,

Hi there, darling

If you really think that being bipolar is a possibility for you, maybe you should think about going to another therapist to get a second opinion. You could make an appointment with a psychiatrist and see what they think. Your therapist probably takes notes and writes down what she thinks is important during each session and the psychiatrist should be able to see them, so they could have an idea of what's going on.

I think to explain it to your therapist you should just say it. Say something like, "I really do believe I'm bipolar and I want to know what about me makes you think I'm not." If you know what it is that makes them think you don't have it you might get a better idea and not be so confused about it. As for your parents, just explain to them that you think you're bipolar and want to know what they think about it. They could start paying attention to things and know the things to look for. Your with your parents more than your therapist so your parents could take to your therapist if they think you're showing signs of it at home. It could give your therapist a better idea about whether you've got bipolar disorder or not.

Lots of love,

Hi there, darling

When apologizing isn't an option the best thing you can do is show them you're sorry using your actions rather than words. You can show someone you're sorry using actions by just doing things to show them you're sorry. Things like being kind to them, inviting them over and making them their favorite food, renting their favorite movie to watch with them, and just things like that.

If there's things they love doing try doing those things with them. Like if there's a movie they've been talking about how much they want to go to and see, go and see it with them. Write them a letter telling them what a good friend they are and how you wish you could take back whatever it is that you did to upset them. Don't say you're sorry in the letter, just explain it to them why you did it and promise them that it'll never happen again. Really make the letter come straight from the heart.

Try asking them what you can do to make this up to them. They might tell you what you can do to make it up to them and if they do, just do what they tell you do to to make it up to them.

Lots of love,

Hi, love

Thank you so much! These are such sweet messages and this made my day! You are so fantastic and sweet. I was having a pretty bad day and this absolutely made it better. Thank you so much!

Lots of love,