#mhaashlynn

Hey Lucca,

I talked to Ashlynn, and she would just like to say that she is so happy and incredibly proud of you. She hopes to talk to you again, but until then, please stay strong for us, and try to look for the good in everything, even when no one else does. We all love and care about you, and wish you the absolute best. If you’re ever struggling and we’re not around, please consider our helplines, web counselors, and distractions page. We also have a video by the beautiful Roshi called “Why Stay?” and a whole page dedicated to reasons to stay. If you’re ever in need, please reach out. We love you!

Best of luck to you,

Hey there sweetheart,

I let Ashlynn know, and she told me to tell you that it is completely okay to not answer and that she’s glad she could help! She also said that you were a darling and really appreciates you coming. :3 I wish you the best!

I believe in you,

Hey darling,

We currently have two messages in our inbox tagged alonine.  You can check out our tag list for your messages’ place in our inbox here.  You can also check out our page on waiting for your message to be answered here.  I hope this all helps.  Feel free to message us any time.  Best of wishes!!!!

Hey love,

I am perfectly okay! I have been very busy with school and such. It has been super hard to find time to get on regularly every day. I am so sorry I worried you, but you can message me anytime! I hope this all helps. Feel free to message us any time. Best of wishes!!!!!

Hey lovely,

She sounds totally awesome!  I haven’t heard of her before which is surprising since I am a lesbian that loves country music, but I am so going to look into her now!  Thank you so much!  Feel free to message us any time.  Best of wishes!!!!

Hey darling,

This sounds like it is really hard for you to be dealing with.  It sounds like your father is really concerned with the fact that you may not be what he imagined or wanted you to be.  All parents have images of what they would like their kids to be like when they are older even if they do not realize it however when kids do not turn out like that all parents react differently.  It sounds like the fact that you are these things he never imagined you to be (hence everything he is really nitpicky about) are hard for him to accept.  However that does not excuse his actions and even though it may be hard for him to accept this he shouldn’t behave this way towards you. Do you think you could try addressing your concerns with your father?  You can write a note or just sit down with him. Do only what you feel comfortable doing though.  Also remember that you are not doing anything wrong and it is 100% okay to be the way you are and the issue is the way your father is reacting to this.

It may be a good idea for you two to enter some sort of therapy together where you two can work on his reactions and how he is accepting what is going on.  In therapy he can also work realize how his comments are impacting you and together boundaries can be set up to avoid invasive questions are judgemental comments.  You both can also build a more trusting relationship where you can eventually feel able to come out to him.You can check out our page on getting help here.  However I totally get not being able to get into a situation where you can get therapy with him.  Still if you can find some way to talk to him or make him realize that what he is saying and doing is harmful to you.  If you want you can check out our gender and sexuality page here.  You do what you feel comfortable doing and feel safe doing.  If you need to talk more you can always contact us on our social media, call a hotline, chat with a web counsellor, or even try out our very own live chat system.  I really hope this all helps.  Feel free to message us any time.  Best of wishes!!!!!!!