#liminal.txt

This is all going to come across probably very bitch or aggressive and I do apologise but also I'm sick to absolute death of this shit. I've tried to get back into system spaces recently as I feel the drama from a few years ago has quieted down a considerable amount, but Jesus fucking Christ I did not think it would be so fucking obnoxious. First off it's difficult enough trying to find a space that is, at the very minimum, 16+. Look I'm 21 years old I don't want to be talking to actual fucking 12 year olds that's so weird. But even when I do find one that's 18 it's somehow STILL so fucking ridiculous. Like every single one I've seen so far, without fail, has had some bullshit fucking verification process that is so petty and pointless I actually struggled to believe my eyes whan I see them. Sure name, age, system or no? All good stuff to have but wanting fucking detailed explanations and definitions on medical terms relating to OSSDID, What the fuck? As if we're all fucking qualified to have text book definitions on hand and as if google doesn't fucking exist? And yes I get it, you want people to be informed, all well and good, so just have info availible then, like you all do anyway so I don't see much point in getting people to write a small fucking essay. Oh and God forbid you don't write the exact terminology or specifics they want, like will you fuck off? I am sick to fucking death of being talked down to by 15 year olds because I don't list every single traumatic way a system can form, that's so fucking unnecessary like get a grip.

Ohhh and the Endo vs Trauma shit, fuck me. For some stupid reason every. single. one. wants your opinion on endos. Piss off ok, my opinion is this, i don't care. Idgaf what other people do ok, most of them are just children or just like misinformed or something. I don't see why I should have to denounce them, or say I hate them or even worse get kicked out of spaces for saying "hey maybe we shouldn't bully, harass and send death threats to these people?" I hate that my disinterest in this drama gets me labelled as a supporter or fence sitter, fuck off and grow up, it's not my job to educate people and you're fucking delusional for thinking I *HAVE* to have an opinion or pick a side on fucking anything. At this rate I actually think the endo/plural community is way nicer than the OSSDID one. I hate that I have to state I have trauma every fucking step of the way in order not to get fake claimed by the people who are supposed to be in the same ball park as me, it's degrading and I despise it, I don't owe any of you anything okay? And if you think I do then get fucking lost, we aren't friends and I don't care what you threaten me with I refuse to be dragged down with you.

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Critter Nation! This server is a system friendly SFW 18+ support server, this server is LGBTQ+, ND and Endogenic friendly as well. The rules are short and simple and the varification is very easy! It is not a huge server but it is regularly active, at least a few convos a day from what I have seen, this server has plenty or resources, bots, activities and channels! Some minor things about the server I saw that I don't quite jive with is the fact they have a trigger warning chat which can be used by any users, personally, I am not a fan of this for many reasons, it toes on a line of oversharing and I'm unsure if you are expected to read and remember them all, but it is not at all a requirement so it is a minor issue and as far as I can see the general rules are all that apply through out, and at that, are again super fair which is nice to see!

Dissociative Galaxy! This is an 18+ system server that is exclusive to traumagenic systems only, with acceptance of questioning sys and singlets. This server is pretty big, with over 2k members and well over 50 channels, they offer a big range of resources, bots, chats, media channels and many many emojis for those who cannot/do not wish to type! This server is decently active and while personally I find that a tad overwhelming there are quieter corners of the server too. This server has decent rules with a lot of thought and inclusivity towards people with screen-readers as well as full system accountability and manegement of ones own triggers. Their trigger list itself is short and sweet, surrounding very general topics and access to specific tw channels, all of this imo is very respectable and appreciated! That being said I do have small gripes with this server, personally I cannot say I am a huge fan of the way this server handels it's varification system. It is lengthy and full of description requirements, when I applied I ended up having a minor disagreement with a mod because I was not specific enough when talking about causes, they did not specify in the form they wanted an actual list of things and while I was told I was "technically right" it apparently wasn't enough. This all feel just a bit hypocritical as they claim not to be a research or educational server but they expect such specific understanding from the people who join, while I understand wanting people to know at least the minimum, in my experiance and opinion, it felt much too hyper-specific and gatekeepy to me. But again this IS my opinion and this server is pretty big, so I understand their caution.

Additional notes: This server does contain some minors, although it is 18+ the server used to be open to all ages, this is discloased on their Disboard. Although this is a Traumagenic only server they do offer a link to the Plural Alliance, which is an all inclusive Plural space! I have not been within this space but it is a much smaller server, with only 500 +.

Spooky System Server! A spooky themed server with a small community, this server has a very spimple varification process, dedicated 18+ spaces, events, bots, a large range or channels and even a Tumblr community! This server is very friendly with a somewhat quiet community, however, there is at least one convo a day and plenty of things to look at. The server is well orgianised and the theming is super fun too! This is another server with a trigger list chat, and while I said perviously I am not really a fan of those things it's honestly the only personal troubles i've seen with the server, which is again not a requirement at all!

Plural Hub! This server is a little different from the others mentioned, this server acts as an archive for a bunch of plural centric and plural friendly servers! There's channels full of server links ranging from help server to fun servers to off topic servers that are just system inclusive, so if you're wanting a nice easy place just to look around this is 100% the one!! The server is a tad high walled if you are looking to promote you own servers there but they have a big channel full of the step and forms you need to complete as well as a very nice help form!

The Trans Crossroads This is a plural friendly trans support server aimed at providing support, community, resorces for people of all ages and genders! This server is very friendly and super simple to get into, the rules are short and sweet and it's all pretty easy and reasonable. The roles system for this server is a little different than what I'm used to but at the end of the day it's just as easy to understand, there are plenty of diverse roles relating to gender, sexuality and prns which was super cool to see! The server is pretty quite rn though which not much going on but the resources are all still accessible and you could very much but slight inactivity down to the time of year or just timezones, as you could most other servers!

River System Delta This server is an all ages educational and support server focoused on, but not limited to; Autism, Plurality and trauma. All systems are openly welcomed and supported. The rules are pretty standard and the censorship rules are written a bit oddly but maybe it's just my dyslexia there lol cause after a few reads I did manage to understand. This server actually has a really cool tagging system! Similarly to how the traffic light rule works, this server uses two specific emojis that anyone can react to messages with at any time, on meaning to slow the topic before it gets out of hand and one as a hard stop and topic change. I think this is a fantastic idea and more servers should use a system like this, it is very helpful for people who perhaps aren't as confrontational as others or people who are finding themselves a bit upset in the moment but can handle it without having to remove themselves just yet! There's no "blacklist" per-say just a list of topics that aren't appropriate outside of certian areas if at all which is in itself a nice short and easy to get by list. There's a good amount of inclusive roles for terms and prns which is always lovely to see too! The enterance is super nice and easy too, just making an intro! I've honestly little to no gipes with this server! It's super nice and easy to understand for the most part, like the last post activity is quite low at the moment but that could, again, very much be down to timezones or the time of year!

Traumagenic Oasis A safe space for all ages trauma based systems who wish to share their troubles with others, this server makes it very clear that they are not at all against systems of other origins and that "All systems origins are valid, but often that gets lost in servers centered around traumagenic/disordered experiences." Supporting other while not putting the rest down! This server has a pretty short set of rules which are nice and standard and the enterance questions are pretty short and non-invasive with an easy password question although you will be asked your opinion on endo-systems which is always a question I rly hate cause it is often used to fish for fights or validation on unneeded hatred, however, a few days ago someone had pointed out that these questions could also be used to fish out bad actors and bullys which I absolutely do think is the case here!

Non-Human Collectives This server is for anyone 13+ with a non-human identity seeking community, support and friends. Although this server is mostly focoused on non-human system members they are open and welcoming to everyone who identifys as anything outside of human. The rules are standard following a 3 strike ban system, the blacklist isn't overly big or out of the ordinary either, being quite fair with what is allowed in the cw channels. Server access isn't too lengthy either, being an intro + minor password thing and although this server also includes a question on opinion on endo-systems, which as I said before this I do not like as it seem like fishing for drama, I will give the benifit of the doubt here and assume they are also doing this to catch out bad actors!