๐ 5 TOP RELATIONSHIP KILLERS,and WHY YOU MAY WANT to AVOID: 1. Controlling Behavior - Most people enter a relationship with a deep fear of rejection, and this fear motivates various forms of controlling behavior. ๐Controlling behavior always results in resentment and emotional distance, bringing about the very rejection that it is meant to avoid. 2. Resistance - Many people enter a relationship with a deep fear of losing themselves. The moment they experience their partner wanting control over them, they respond with resistance- withdrawal. ๐Relationship becomes immobilized. Make you feel frustrated, stagnant, and resentful. 3. Neediness - Many people enter a relationship believing that it is their partnerโs job to fill their emptiness, take away their loneliness, and make them feel good about themselves. ๐Sometimes we forget that our partner's job is not to complete us, but to compliment us. 4. Substance and Process Addictions - Most people who feel empty inside turn to addictions. ๐This usually creates an unhealthy environment. 5. Eyes on Partners Plate - Many people are acutely aware of what their partner is doing that is causing relationship problems, but completely unaware of what they are doing. ๐ You cannot change anyone. It is not your job to fix your partner. You can only change yourself. So, guys if you feel the signal of the one above, immediately take action. or avoid before it happens. Agree? Drop Your ๐ if you are agree, or will you add other Killers relationships? Happy Monday ๐ Love and Blessings ~~~~~~~~~~โกโกโก ๐ฟ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ะฒloggram :ย ย ๐๐ค๐ง ๐ข๐ค๐ง๐ follow me๐ ๐ @Zen.Torontoย ๐ www.zentoronto.net ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~โกโกโก #zendailyjournal #zenbloggram #lifecoachingtip #Autorzentoronto #bestsellingauthor #self transformormation #relationship #relationshipmasterclass #relationshiptips https://www.instagram.com/p/Caye8MzPhHC/?utm_medium=tumblr