#lets talk

In Cree one of the ways we say "cat" is pôsis, which comes from the English word pussy!

I’ve been sitting with their relationship a lot, especially when it comes to power dynamics both emotionally and sexually, and I want to be clear about the version I’m interested in writing.

For me, Zanka is the dominant one, and Jabber is the submissive, even with the size difference or honestly because of it.

I don’t see size as the deciding factor in who holds power. Jabber being significantly larger actually makes his submission feel more intentional. He isn’t submissive because he’s weaker, he’s submissive because he chooses to be. Zanka’s dominance isn’t about physical force. It’s about control, certainty, decision making, setting the pace, and giving or withholding permission.

Even when he’s quieter or physically smaller, he’s the one steering

Which is why the dynamic that clicks most for me is Zanka as a power bottom and Jabber as a submissive top.

Zanka controls the situation. Boundaries, rhythm, escalation. Jabber does the work, gives himself over to that authority, and thrives under direction.

Jabber’s size and strength don’t undermine this at all. If anything, they add tension. Someone who could take control, but doesn’t, because he wants to be guided.

So when I write them, I don’t want to flip their roles or lean into bigger equals dominant. I’m more interested in how their personalities naturally express intimacy.

Zanka needing control to feel grounded.

Jabber needing permission to feel wanted.

That’s the dynamic I’ll be exploring when I write this fic.

Winter is different for everyone — what’s yours like? ❄️☀️😋

Everyone I know--everyone who *thinks* they know me--would be stunned aghast to know that I secretly crave tempting little homewrecking sluts and that I delight in defiling cheating wives/gfs/fiances.