Yesterday I read a note on giving massage from a therapist, Dale Favier, whoās been doing bodywork for five years in Portland, Oregon.Ā
āIt feels sacred to me, in the same way that wilderness feels sacred to me.āĀ
It is so true that getting masterful at doing massage and bodywork involves being willing to encounter the wildness of nature.
Every person is so amazing. Youād think after 35 years in this field I would understand more about people. But sometimes I feel like I know less than when I started. Because people and nature are so wild, so enduringly deep ā I tell students, Iāve just been lost and found in these forests a bit longer than you.
What do I know?
Pain often seems to come more from life stresses and being disconnected from oneself than from structural compromise. I once read that the most unbearable pain is the separation from God. Now, I donāt aim to advocate a religious approach to massage. But I will say ā when people lose the appreciation for how wild and how sacred they are, they start to get sick.
It is perhaps the greatest of human tragedies that people are not educated to celebrate and to take maximum advantage of their incredible minds and how they relate to spirit, feelings, their bodies, and actions.Ā
When we lose touch with seeing ourselves as natural wonders, thatās when we begin to lose life force. Each person is a wonder of nature and if they donāt know that ā they have forgotten perhaps the most important thing in their lives.
So as a teacher, I just keep on thinking up the wildest and truest things I can say! To wake people up! Because truth, to be fully activated, has to delight and surprise us ā electrify us like a wild current! Sometimes I just want to shake the person (perhaps thatās the idea behind Trager or Lomi Lomi) and say, āJust look at yourself! Look how incredible you are!ā
This person in the mirror is a wild person!
Working in the wilderness of the experimental species that is the human being is one of the most profound ways we encounter nature. We know this voyage of therapistsā and clientsā discovery to the deepest truths and fundamental enlivenment is the most important one we can take.
Then that incredible living landscape , that miracle, your client looks back at you and smiles, and says, āThank you so much for the massage! That was wild!ā
As therapists we must have the technical resources and knowledge to dramatically preserve and encourage the wild world of each person, to redeem them from the suffering of having forgotten who they most deeply are.